Seeking: A local partner for edgeplay and emotional connection building trust through dating.

I'm looking to make more stunning and visually appealing content and fine-tune my shibari skills. Trust and general confidence is key. I know clear communication and planning is integral. Being flexible, honest, affectionate, independent, and always working to improve ourselves as partners.

I fully understand that I’m asking for much of the moon above, but I also completely respect that much of that is not found, but built together. I like to go for coffee and take things from there eventually doing an informal collaring or contract.

All those seeking deeper conversations, and/or those potentially interested in the above, please read below:

Quality Humans to Share Nerdage Interests - Conversation of depth, nerdage, kink, and passions for personal goals and interests capture my heart quick. Board games, music, the outdoors, kink, anime, cooking, shibari and martial arts are my personal passions. Looking to improve my photography and videography skills. While I enjoy all cuisines, my preferences for cooking them are usually authentic Japanese, Thai, and Italian.

I've worked hard in the last few years to begin making friends, being apart of the community and improving my own skills.

Socially - I'm best described as a masked autistic introvert who trys to be honest, goofy and warm. I prefer scheduling specific adventures and scenes ahead of time. Regarding groups/crowds - I enjoy my people and always enjoy meeting quality humans who are a pleasure to chat with, but randos, especially in large groups, are a bit overwhelming.

Looking to find those to game with, to hike alongside, to cook with, to ride the rail at a concert beside, or to share in pleasure and people. Adventures of all flavor and tempo - let's go out and have fun.

Romantic Preferences:

Note: I have only released I'm pan for about a year now so I lean towards fem and submissive energy.

Prepared for an informational mouthful?

I'll try to keep it succinct, but seriously - I adore talking and just ask about anything you're curious about or which caught your eye:

My personal preferences usually have a heavy lean towards feminine-presenting or non-binary individuals. I have occasionally met men which I truly do click with and am VERY into, romantically and sexually, but I seem to find myself much more demi-sexual with men and thus have met very few that I was drawn to. It happens, just rarely - please don’t be offended if it's not you.

Regarding couples/polycules/etc. - I’m experienced with and very much enjoy group social and sexual activities. My bull side revels in joining couples. I enjoy some of the more intense edge play which needs trust and longer term dynamics to be SSC.

Overall - quality people with healthy standards for conversations, communication, and consent seem to have a way of winning me over.

Sexual Interests:

Simply put - I'm not very picky but I have done a lot of exploring and enjoy finding what works best for me and my partners

For a more detailed explanation:

I'm a respectful, communicative, and ethical individual who is completely open in my lifestyle. Let me know what your limits are pertaining to discretion and I'll follow through.

To me, sex and kink are literally the best way to spend time together and give me the most satisfaction. It builds trust and connection in a way that makes more sense then organic.

I've been leaning more and more towards play including some level and flavor of power dynamic or group play energy.

Negotiations are always welcome, but I'm firm on insisting on after-care for any power dynamic play.

Topping, my standard style is more rigging and formal master/sir though I think my partner's input and fetishes are important to. I'm like a coach I listen you and push getting the best out of us both.

Bottoming, I very much do enjoy bottoming for the right soft top or gentle femme-domme individual. Pegging is absolutely on the table and please make use of my mouth, but impact play is more of a sound turn on and I have more golden retriever pet energy for praise.

Group Play, I thrive on the energy so it tends to be more about fulfilling the couple's desires and is always fun.

I will always want to move to a vibe check inperson because body language is really important for gauging chemistry. I prefer longer term arrangements and some line of communication so we both feel like our dynamic is growing. So please, if we don't already have a connection or have played before - don't hit me up to play with no intentions to talk or hangout first.

Special Interests and Fantasies of Note

Making more intense fantasies come true really is my driving factor and I get off on making my partner reach new heights. Whether through sensory play or new levels of pain mixed with pleasure, taking things to the next level is what I like to do.

I've a love for touch and a passion for D/S and rigging. My expectation is to make sure we both cum a little more than our bodies can handle. I enjoy making my partner into a sensitive mess just twitching in delight. Cuddles are amazing. Sexually or entirely platonically.

Oral- I like to make you squirm after you cum teasing your sensitive bits with my tongue.

Shibari is a big passion, I love the tengu harness and the feeling of power from suspension. I do gotes (box ties or TKs) only on the ground and enjoy doing more sadistic knotts and intensional pain. Predicaments are definitely an interest.

Outdoor Play in particular hanging you off a tree or getting flashed and then fucking up against a tree.

Hopefully this gives a proper impression of my intentions and interests.

I'm eager to talk to any interested readers and thank you all very much for stopping by!

Have a wonderful day everyone,

Sam