Let me begin by saying that I think there is beauty in obedience, in the structure that comes from a regimented life. I like giving rules, and structure to my partner. I want to take care of her, and rules, ownership, and guidance are a loving way to do that.

Oh I know she's intelligent, and capable all on her own. But sometimes it's better to let someone else do the thinking, the deciding for her. Besides all that responsibility, all those decisions she has to make all the time wear on her, I want to allow her to relax, to not think, to not decide to just do, and to be.

I don't need to control others to feel whole. I enjoy it, it's something that is meaningful to me. But it isn't necessary for me to function. I like when things are dependable, when you can put your faith and trust in someone. To know they care about you, that they follow through on tasks, and protocols established is a wonderful aspect of the dynamic for me.

For me this is very much about love (and control) taking care and nurturing others fulfills me. It gives me joy, and pleasure to bring structure and order to someone.

Now it isn't just about her day to day life as well, I am very much about pushing her sexually, pain, humiliation, pleasure, lust, humility lets find those limits, lets see what you are capable of enduring, and becoming.

These are all lovely ideas, and concepts, but I'm going to be a bit more practical and explain myself in regards to who and what I'm looking for from someone. It's not overly complicated, but will take effort, and dedication.

When you wake up I want you to check in with me. I want to know how you slept, I want to know how you are feeling, I want to know what your day looks like, and I want to know what obligations you might have for the day.

Take joy in the tasks I give you, it's important you eat enough, drink enough water, find time to rest. These are all so vital to keeping you going, keeping you functional. Neglect, and apathy are to be fought, resisted, we care, and we will do to combat them.

Sexual play, and exploration are fun, and exciting. It is never a chore, it's a joyfull expression of your love and submission. Show me how much you love pleasing me, turning me on, and making me happy. The energy you give, and love shared will be retuned tenfold.

Next don't come to me with a list of what you want to do, or what you need. Find someone else, I'm not here to cater to your whims. There are so many people here happy and willing to accommodate you, desperate for approval and your attention. Find one of them, I'm not here to serve, and please you.

Now that doesn't mean not having limits, having limits is healthy, we all have them and I expect you will have yours. What ever they are I will respect them, and respect you.

Yes I want you to have an open mind, yes I want you to be open and willing to explore your sexuality. I've really explored some of the darker aspects of sexuality, and enjoy dwelling within there, if you submit to me you'll join me as well, it'll be fun.

If you choose to message me be genuine, be a real person. I'm not looking for a person with no substance, a vapid hole people fuck, and pass on when they are bored of them. I'm only interested in CIS born women, I prefer someone who works from home, or is a stay at home. I want someone who's 20-36, if you are older I'm sure you are amazing as a person, and as a woman, I'm just not interested.

That's it, I have interests and hobbies like everyone else. As do you, and we will talk about that and so much more. I'm not looking to rush or push you into anything too soon. I'm a firm believer in allowing the dynamic to grow, to blossom organically. So that is how we will approach this, we will talk, and get to know one another, grow close, and share something intense, and meaningful.