Lastly I have been a pretty "gentlish" Dom (or even sometimes a bit of a submissive), but right now I feel I want to try something different: I want (again) a Master-slave dynamic, centered on control, sadomasochism and humiliation. Essentially, I want something where I can be more mean and strict.
The dynamic (and kinks)
As I said in my introduction, I always tended to be a caring Dom. Even if I am a bit sadistic, I enjoy inflicting pain and humiliation, at the end I always finished being somewhat gentle and never being actually that mean except from some sporadic isolated moments. Expecially outside scenes I always tended to be on the caring side.
Even if I know that's probably my nature, right now I want to explore something different, like a proper Master-slave dynamic. A dynamic where there are roles, a clear hierarchy, where I can be as mean and strict with you as I want, without worrying too much.
In this dynamic there will be surely a good sadomasochist component. I like spanking and pretty much many of the other kinds of hit play. Even if I don't like extremes (see limits), I like small bruises. I like also to "get creative" with tortures, like setting up scenes where I tease you body in particular ways, like using clamps, cold and hot stuff, and so on. I can proudly say I am able to set up scenes like a movie director.
Another thing I would like to introduce is control and discipline. Orgasm control is the basic thing, but I really would like to explore more some further rules, almost on the TPE side. I don't know exactly which rules, but I would like to take control of some small (again, see limits) aspect of your daily life and routine.
Humiliation will be a thing too. I would like to make clear there is a hierarchy and humiliation and degradation will be used as tool to remind you that (again, see limits to have an idea of what will happen and what will not).
If you interested here there is a kinks list (i don't know how much updated, surely it includes also my sub side).
About me
In brief:
I am 24 years old and I am from Italy
Phisically I am 1.79 tall, I have a not skinny but either fat body (let's say a sort of dad-bod of one who isn't sporty but still keeps himself in a decent shape (?)). I have dark blonde hair and blue eyes. Anyway I will verify myself with pictures.
I like to present myself drapper and nice. I love classical clothing like shirts and blazers. Expect many pictures of me dressed that way.
I am what someone can call a slightly stubborn introvert. I pretty much like staying on myself, I hate loud and crowded places and instead I like peace, one-to-one conversations, walks and indulging in my interests. If you know what it means, I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously)
I recently finished studying and I started working. I am pretty passionate about what I do and so I am also a bit busy.
About you (and again the dynamic)
be a woman
be in a age between 20 and 35 (and be on or above legal age for your own country)
you are open to verify who you are
live in Europe, even better if in Italy (essentially, the closer the better) (*)
be in a decent shape (it doesn't mean being an athlete or so, it's just I am not into large body types. My definition of "decent shape" isn't actually that strict)
be a submissive or a switch willing to be submissive for a while
be willing to respect limits and boundaries
on your first message, you include the word "strawberry" so I know you read the post
(*) Soft requirement: it means if you don't satisfy it's okay.
As an attitude, you can be a naturally submissive and humble or also a bit of a brat or a proper switch. Untill you are proactive, you give feedbacks, you are open to communicate and finally you desire to serve it's okay.
Coming back to the dynamic, I guess this can be a short term thing or also something long term. I sincerely don't like to put expectations in advance and I would like it's the same for you. Let's keep it chill and let it naturally go on.
Limits
Kinkwise: extreme pain, blood, disgusting things (body liquids, other than spit and cum, lack of hygiene), blackmail (and real threats), CNC, permanent or serious damage
Dynamic-wise: actual micromanagement, mess up with private life, serious humiliation, messing up with a delicate mental health
General and relationship-wise: pushing boundaries and "expect things", attaching to the other person and not being able to deal with a "no", draining the other energies and consuming a lot of time
Conclusion
Well. If you come to the end of this post, congratulations. It has been a bit long but here we are.
To contact me you can DM here on reddit. Please introduce yourself a bit in the message so I know who I am talking with.
See you soon!
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