I'm married in a tpe relationship (my wife is a submissive). Our life, mostly, consists of hanging out around the house, talking, fucking, watching random movies and shows, and cooking and baking. We're fairly laid back, homebodies; cozy with a BDSM twist thrown in.

What I'm looking for is an anal sub slave into free use that'd want to come be a part of that a few times a week. What that means to me, is that you're submissive and obey orders - that means if I want a cup of coffee, or you to sit in a certain place, or to take off your clothes, or for you to go fix a plate of snacks, or other things like that, you'll go and do them when you're told. Tying into the next part, the free use anal part, it also means that if I tell you to put my dick in your mouth or to give me a handjob, or to get on all fours so I can fuck your ass, or to sit on my dick, or things like that, you'll do that, too, as told whenever you are told - this also goes for less submissive things like 'sit on my face so I can lick your clit' or other things in service of getting you off (I've met subs that get weird about these things since they are pleasure receiving instead of giving, that's kind of bonkers to me. If I want to eat your pussy, then I will.).

So, very straightforward: you do what you're told, whatever that looks like.

To give some background. I've been a dom for about 19 years. I have experience with everything from BDSM centered relationships to fairly vanilla kinks like hair pulling, rough sex, basic spanking to the more extreme like impact play, CNC, heavy discipline, choking, smothering, severe humiliation, cuckqueaning, and more. I place a very high value on communication and consent. It's very important to me that we have a good understanding of what each other wants, what kinks we share or don't share, and what is acceptable and expected and what isn't - and that you're ability to say no, in a real way, exists and is respected. I love BDSM, I like making people squirm, but I also like giving people what they want and not making them genuinely uncomfortable. Thus, I like to talk, a lot, and I ask for feedback when trying something new or different - knowing where you're at matters a lot and not being locked into dom/ sub space characters, or having an outside to that space, is key.

Speaking of all that, I like to start slow and build, I've had experienced subs and first timers. So, if you're entirely new to this: awesome! I can definitely work with that and we can have an enjoyable time together. If you're experienced or have hardcore kinks, awesome, I can work with that too and we can have an amazing, lovely time.

When replying, tell me about yourself and ask any questions you may have. I'll have plenty of questions for you too.

Finally, for logistics: I live in Ambridge. I'm tall, white, central European, thin to athletic build. My wife is Filipina, chubby, big ass, short.