Hi, I make paddles professionally, and some consider them among the best in the world. Since the pandemic, I’ve been too busy to socialize much, and my list of friendly volunteers has dwindled. So I’m looking to make some new friends. Age isn’t important, and you will find this to be a great source of knowledge. I teach how to evaluate someone’s equipment you might consider playing with. The vocabulary, boundaries, and Do’s and Dont’s, and risk points to be aware of. I also share a list of questions to ask anyone professing to be a Dom, so you can assess the bullshit factor. It’s important that every person feel safe and respected, and know that their needs/safety are foremost.
The paddles are made of exotic timbre from South America, Africa, and domestically. Some paddles can be quite expensive, so it’s important to test them in short, and long sessions. The goal being to tune the paddle, and write a description much like you would see for a bottle of wine. “This is a dense wood so the paddle is on the thinner side. On the convex side it can be quite thuddy and forgiving, but flip it over, and it delivers a surface level sting, that’s memorable, and sounds as such. “ I am a very seasoned and well trained Dom, and also a switch. I’ve written articles for websites and apps, and taught classes. I’m looking for those that want to bottom, or be the receiver, as well as tops, that want to work on their swing. My personal experience helps me know what to adjust. Things like weight distribution, flex, edge sharpness, length, all play a role. I also design and market other high end BDSM equipment you might find fun. No experience required. Normal safe word framework of course. You decide what you are up for. I pride myself on giving people a very positive introduction to BDSM and impact play. There’s a lot of mental strength and stamina that can come from BDSM, that’s beneficial in all facets of your daily life. Many people talk about their anxiety levels dropping, and self confidence increasing significantly. Hours are flexible. Located in the east bay, and mobile at times. Hope to hear from you.
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