Hi, 51 year old married (wife not involved) male from the uk seeking online sub over 25.

For me I like the challenge that online presents, and it’s safer for you. I like to chat on text rather than audio or video calls and no need for any pictures to be compromising (no face). Please be OK with photo and/or video proof of task completion once a level of trust is built. I do not require you to show face

So, are you up for the challenge of being only online anything I make you do I will channel through your mind to your body. I want to work to create a real sub headspace for you.

It’s fine to be punished by me, but do you have the control, will power, respect for your dom to punish yourself because I command it? I want to work with you, so you give up all of your control but not without your consent!

My kinks include orgasm control, pain, TPE, edge play, sex toys rubber bands, food and clothing control, and probably a few more. However my predominant kink is a need for control, respect and your dedication. I understand that online can be hard and I am happy to work around real life.

Limits are kids, humiliation, degradation, scat, blood and anything ilegal.

This is not role playing but online real life.

Bonus points if you already toys, butt plugs, clothes pins, clamps, rubber bands, etc.

I want to respect you and own you. Engaging in meaningful conversations beyond the dynamic is important to me. Initially, I may not reveal my face for some time or at all and would expect the same for you. It is online so all about internet safety.

A reasonable level of engagement and availability would really help the online dynamic, but I am aware everyone has commitments.

I'm excited to hear from you and if we might be a potential match for a dynamic.

Message with your age, time zone , kinks, and limits. Please say more than hi.

Biggest dislike is being ghosted, we are all adults, don’t like what I am offering just say so and be respectful. If you have read this far please include the phrase “no ghosting” in your response.

Cannot wait to hear from you.