You are an independent, intelligent person. Is it really so bad that what you want to be used? So what if you what makes you wet isn’t slow, romantic lovemaking, but being held down, spanked, and taken. What excites you isn’t flowers and candy or candle-lit dinner. Your romance is service, and those candles have a better purpose. So what if you prefer “slut” or “good girl” to “honey” or “sweetheart.” Does that make you less of a woman? Mother? Feminist? And do you have any less power for choosing to give it to someone else? I offer freedom through pain and submission, but also through care. So why not surrender yourself to me, if only for a little while?

Hello, reddit subs. I’m looking for a partner for some mutual fun and distraction.

I’m a stern-but-affectionate Dom, my biggest kinks being impact play and bondage. I’m a sensual sadist and rigger. Plenty more that we can discuss. I’m very experienced in the lifestyle, but I’m constantly learning and trying to grow as a Dom and expect the same from you, so any level of experience is okay.

Thoughtful, creative type that loves art, movies, music, books, and making things. I like to channel that creativity into kink and make my own restraints/collars/rope/impact toys, etc. So if things work out, expect artistic gifts. Very Leftist, a little weird—hope you are too. I’m ENM and married, but only dating for myself. I’m open to casual connections, but my preference is a consistent partner to develop a relationship with.

Physically, I’m 5’11, average build but very active. Wavy, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Happy to share pics if we mesh. I’m always up for conversation, but more interested in local/driving distance partners. If you think we might be a good fit, message me and tell me a bit about yourself. Thanks for reading!