Hey! It's nice to meet you!

Here's a novel featuring both my kinky side and my vanilla dating profile side. I hope all this info really helps!

First the kinky stuff. FYI. I'm in no rush to make you my sub tomorrow but I don't want a pen pal either.

Although I'm a switch, I'd say I'm 80% Dom and 20% sub on most days.

When it comes to my kinks, I'm into breeding, 1950s lifestyle (especially in mentality and practice), bimbofication/sluttification, bondage, CNC, kidnapping, rape play, hypnosis play, anal play, orgasm control and denial, caregiver/little dynamic, and something close to TPE but not 100%. My limits include no blood, incest, scat, or watersports. Recently i have become very interested in exhibitionism (within reason - I'm a public employee after all). I have had a few fantasies about controlling your vibrator at a club or other places out on the town. I have also become intrigued about filming even if our faces are blurred, simply for the thrill.

You should also know that I love to be teased and seduced especially through words and clothing. I would say I definitely like having my doll play dress up for me.

With all that said , I'm open to discussing other kinks as well.

As for my ideal partner, I'm looking for a cis-female who is between 22 and 31, lives within 2ish hours of me, and is interested in BDSM as part of a larger intentional relationship. Ideally, she would share some of my kinks, including 1950s, breeding, hypnosis play, bimbofication/sluttification, free use, Ds, CNC, rape/kidnap play, anal, misogyny, dirty talk, light exhibitionism, worship of Dom, praise, lingerie, collars, and orgasm denial. I'm also looking for someone who is educated and/or has a solid career, in decent shape/attractive, and interested in marriage and kids someday.

If this sounds like you, don't hesitate to message me! Let's explore our kinks together and see where our connection takes us."

Dating side: Here it goes! I've taken a break from the dating scene and the dating apps for just under 2 years. I spent the time working on myself (mental and physical health), my career. Now, like a bear awaking from hibernation, I think I am slowly ready to explore the dating scene again but take a bit more of a nuanced approach by looking in nonconventional places like reddit and other online communities, but also at local gatherings and events. I don't think I'm the only one with this fatigue, I sincerely think people are burnt out from dating apps and are looking elsewhere to seek connection.

A bit about me:

• 6'4 and around 215lb
• Dark brown almost black hair. Short beard. Icy blue eyes.
• Bilingual English and Spanish
• I work in education and I use my bilingual skills daily :)
• I love living in the city. I hate that you have to drive so many places in the US and while I have a car, I would very much prefer walkable and explorable spaces.
• I'd prefer if you were closer. I did do an LDR (during covid so no ability to visit overseas), I'm not necessarily opposed, but I'd prefer to be with you in person!
• I am progressive/liberal. I work in education. That's hopefully pretty obvious. These values are important to me because there are a lot of people in my life whom I care deeply about that don't have the same privileges and protections that I do. Also, it would be counter productive career-wise to support anything different. Not here to argue politics, but these are my values.
• I am also nonreligious but appreciate the different wisdom and lessons that can be learned throughout the religions of the world. That said, I have some concerns and suspicions of overly powerful organized religious bodies.
• I have recently gotten into fitness (ok 3ish years isn't recent anymore but I love that I can always add new challenges to it. I started with HIIT but now I mainly do weightlifting, rucking, and the occasional yoga session. I also love cycling and try to exclusively cycle instead of using my car during the summer. I've also recently been challenging myself with cold baths.
• I want kids. I'm an educator, I chose to work with kids and I definitely want a family of my own.
• I LOVE EDM. I have a DJ board that I mess around with for fun as a hobby but it's nothing I really want to turn into a side gig. I will pretty much vibe to anything but country but will even vibe to that if it's mixed in with something at 124-128bpm. Let's go to all the concerts/fests/raves!!!
• I do enjoy fashion and style and it's been fun really figuring out what style works best for me. I wear a lot of jeans, Chelsea boots. Recently I've skewed more minimalist but I also love a good flashy Kentucky Derby outfit.
• I am 420 friendly. I'd prefer if you are too on a societal level. Idc if you don't like 420 personally. I also don't need it in my life, I just prefer it sometimes to having alcohol if I am on a night out.
• I am a jokester and a goofball.
• I do prefer to date someone younger. 2-3 years is fine but I'd honestly prefer 5-10 years. I think this preference really stems from me not being ready for kids yet despite being 32. I don't want to feel rushed, I would like to be able to have a few years together of dating/marriage before trying for kids.
• I don't necessarily have a specific type but I do like Latinas!