Hello Reddit!

35 cis het woman here looking for the beautiful overlap between love and kink.

Physically I’m 5’1”, brunette, tattooed, and plus size. I’m active and healthy and will probably out-hike you (I’ll DEFINITELY kick your ass in Beat Saber) but if you’re looking for “skinny” or “petite” (aside from height) I’m not your girl.

I’m polyamorous and married. I’m not looking for just a play partner or a fling. I’m hoping to find a deep connection with someone that can grow into an actual relationship, so it’s preferable that you’re experienced in poly and understand what that entails.

I’m a general nerd and have a large variety of hobbies. Gaming, crafting, karaoke, kayaking, Lego, traveling, live music, and dining out are some of the favorites! No children (and don’t want them but it’s okay if you have them) so I have a lot of free time to pursue new hobbies, hyper fixate on those hobbies, and then drop them for something new lol.

When it comes to kink, I’m a service submissive with a preference for daddy/pleasure/caretaker/soft doms. I enjoy a strong and assertive dominant but with a consistent undertone of care and affection. I’m not into heavy degradation or humiliation of any kind. I’m not a masochist but I can handle (and enjoy) pain in the right circumstances - ie primal play, rough sex, etc. I’m a woman first and a submissive second, so while I’m looking for a d/s relationship it isn’t something that will happen right away. Submission is earned and trust is built over time. I have no problem discussing kink early on though as it’s important to make sure we both vet each other and establish compatibility.

I’m HSV2 positive and sexual health/safety are a priority for me. Please only reach out if this fits the risk profile of you and your partner(s).

I look forward to connecting soon!