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21 [F4M] #online - Seeking a firm hand, ideally older and more experienced
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barefoot_elizabeth is a female age 21 looking for a male in online
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Hey there! Well, my first try was a disaster lol I think my writing tone was a little too casual and I just got flooded with way too many messages, and ended up having the same conversation over and over with like a hundred guys. So here goes again! I can't wait to meet you ❤️

I'm Elizabeth, I just turned 21 and I recently broke free from a conservative Christian upbringing about a year ago. It's been quite a journey of self-discovery since then, and I'm looking for someone who can be both patient and firm in guiding me through this phase.

A bit about me: I enjoy hiking, movies, and cooking; it's my creative outlet. Reading can be a challenge for me, possibly due to some ADHD tendencies. This part of it is intentionally short because I like getting to know people through conversation, and also I feel like I want kink to dominate our relationship. I want to have a kind of "always on" dominant/submissive relationship, and I'm looking for kind of a specific kind of man.

In a Dom, I'm seeking someone who embodies a blend of patience and firmness. To be totally clear by the way, when I say patient, I don't mean that you can't show your sexual side right off the bat. I actually really like when someone messages me and takes control in subtle ways right from the start, and isn't as embarrassed as I am to talk about this stuff. When I say patient, I just mean someone who knows how to slowly work their way into my head and manipulate me. I crave a firm hand that knows how to take control and push me in the right ways.

Experience is a plus, especially if you've delved into the intricacies of domination and submission. Older men with a wealth of knowledge and a calm demeanor tend to catch my attention. I appreciate someone who can balance the intensity of BDSM play with moments of care and aftercare.

Communication is key for me. I want a Dom who can articulate desires, boundaries, and expectations clearly and respectfully. We may not be equals, but mutual respect forms the foundation of any dynamic, and I'm looking for someone who values and prioritizes this aspect as much as I do.

Regarding my submissive side: I'm fairly new but extremely eager to explore. I'm into mind games, especially if you can get inside my head and use it to your advantage. I've noticed a strong attraction to older, more experienced, patient men. The contrast between their methodical approach and my energy is a major turn-on; it's like they're holding me back on a leash, but with words.

I enjoy discipline and being pushed out of my comfort zone for my dominant's amusement. I have a thing for embarrassment and humiliation, as well as being treated both as a refined slave and a wild, uncontrollable slut. It's a paradox that somehow makes sense in my head.

While I haven't tried everything yet, I already know that I like pain, petplay, whipping, kneeling, pointless tasks, mind games, body writing...and a lot more. I'm also really curious about some more extreme things like CNC and drugging and that kinda stuff.

My limits are pretty straightforward: no sharing of pictures or videos online due to past negative experiences. I also steer clear of anything health-related that could make me sick or uncomfortable.

I know it might sound unusual, but I've been searching for a genuine connection online and haven't had much luck. I crave that connection along with the guidance and control that a dominant partner can provide.

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