Age: 36

Gender: 6ft2 Black woman with a few curves. Lives a healthy lifestyle that works for me (gym often, eating clean mostly but will treat myself too).

Location: Currently Texas, soon to be North Dakota, open to online but not a huge time difference between the two locations. I’m unable to relocate freely for at least 4 years or so.

Gender preference for Partner: Male, between 36-46. Doesn't have to be in the gym all the time, but has some way of keeping himself healthy.

Type of dynamic seeking: Partial Power Exchange Dynamic/Relationship primarily focused on personal growth and improvement rather than sexual things, although that can certainly come into play as communication, connection, and trust grow over time. Not so much like a Daddy Dom/Little Girl dynamic (although I do sense some Middle tendencies that I’m looking forward to exploring more), but for sure looking for more of a Daddy Dom type of Dominant. My job is pretty demanding during the day, and I am a single parent, so having those times where I can turn my brain off from making decisions and just doing as I’m told is something else I’m looking for.

There’s something about submission that appeals to me deep down: the sense of pride in hearing “Good Girl” because I’ve completed a task to their satisfaction as well as serving them in a way that brings them happiness and pleasure. It’s like, a nice warm feeling that sweeps over me, knowing that my person is happy with me and who I am becoming, both on my own and for them. The feeling of trust and being safe enough to be vulnerable and open to be myself (in both my Good Girl and sometimes Bratty ways). On the flip side, knowing that those playful moments where I might act out a little can be met with a look and a certain tone when I’m reminded of who I belong to and that I need to behave…is an indescribable feeling.

Time available to give the dynamic/expecting from your Partner: I have a full-time job, currently finishing my degree, and I’m a single parent, so finding time can be something that we discuss in the beginning because I can imagine that would change quite often.

Prior experience/dynamics: Mostly vanilla relationships, dabbled VERY lightly in some roleplay stuff when prior years. That being said, I’ve been doing a lot of learning about submission in general, as well as what being a submissive means and looks like to me.

Limits/Boundaries: Hard limits: any race play; anything with bodily fluids; anything illegal; nothing physical that can impact how I do my job (to include leaving visible marks); sharing with others (I’m monogamous, and would prefer my partner to be the same); open and obvious power exchange in public/in front of family and friends (but I would LOVE to explore some subtle power exchange things). My main boundaries: I don’t send sexually explicit photos right off the bat, or for awhile; consistent communication is important, so if there are going to be periods where you can’t talk because you’re busy, all I ask is to let me know (the same applies for having to leave a current convo; I try not to leave people I’m talking to hanging unless it’s an emergency); I’m unable to be actively submissive during the day due to the nature of my job, but I’m open to smaller, not as noticeable submissiveness