Greetings and salutations; I’m Nick. 6’, 190lbs, good-looking (will send SFW pics in initial response)...just a Dom trying to find his sub. Personality-wise I’m kind, funny, empathetic, strong, honest, loving/affectionate, communicative and hard-working, among other traits. In regards to kink I am a Pleasure Dom, though I want to be clear that does not equate to a 100% SOFT dom. I do thoroughly enjoy romance and affection; I’m a top-shelf kisser with a flair for the romantic. I am also a talented lover who swiftly learns his partner’s body and who enjoys edging until you’re begging for release. I will snugglefuck the shit out of you and dig it when I can spend at least part of the night spooning with my partner as we sleep. 

Yet I DO need a partner who enjoys some rougher kinks as well; variety is the spice of life. I love a BDSM-dynamic where I can be my partner’s nurturer, their sadist or anything in-between. Some of my personal favorite kinks are: spanking, hair pulling, slapping, edging, sensation play, breath play, face-fucking, anal (including giving oral) and restraints. Pivoting back to my status as a Pleasure Dom; getting you off gets me off so I have very few limits. My known limits are scat, blood, puke, and involving other men. 

In terms of vanilla interests, I’m a nerd (fantasy, sci-fi, gaming, etc.) who enjoys being active when the weather is nice and hibernating in the winter. On, in or near the water is my happy place; I’m actually getting back to the ocean in early June (road-tripping to Gulfport MS, if you’re from that area and want to go on a date from 6/9 - 6/12 hmu). I love festivals, trying new restaurants, fishing, gardening, dive bars and bar games, kayaking and tubing rivers….just getting out and living life, you know? I’m a great home cook who shows love by doing so; admittedly it’s easier to focus on in the winter. Beyond that I love reading, catching up on shows, gaming, etc. 420 friendly, it’d be dope if you were too…also enjoy a good cocktail but rarely get hammered anymore. I’m an empty-nester, so it’s cool if you have kids but I am not interested in having more. 

What I’m looking for is someone attractive who vibes with the vast majority of the above. I don’t have a type per se, for me attraction comes in myriad forms. Guess I’m typical in that I slightly favor tiny/petite types, easier to throw over the shoulder hehe…but I also play well with curves and adore them. Race and age do not matter one bit, so long as your adulting is well in-hand. Recently had my first age gap relationship (17 years) that was coincidentally DD/lg….found I liked quite a lot about both, though again neither is mandatory. I’m monogamous and you should be too; I wish the poly/ENM peeps all the joy of their lifestyle but it’s not for me.