Hi! Im Kat I'm a 23 year old trans woman about to graduate from college with my BA in sociology, with plans to go to grad school for social work some time in the next couple of years. In my personal time I enjoy reading, spending time with friends and playing videogames. My hobbies include, gaming, skincare & makeup as well as photography.

What I'm looking for

• I'm looking somebody who wants to explore with me, I've only dipped my toes into kink and I want to explore more.
• I don't particularly care how experience you are with kink as long as you have an understanding of consent and a willingness to learn.
• Somebody who is nearby-ish at a minimum, I've done some long distance in the past and it just wasn't good for me.
• somebody who understands the need to build up some mutual trust between us and won't immediately speak to me as if they own me.
• I have a strong preference for fem/ non-binary folks but I'm open to all.
• be around my age (under 35)
• somebody who is comfortable with brats. I enjoy being a little bratty during play and I can turn it off a little bit but I want somebody who is comfortable with the occasional "make me's" and who can put bratty me back into my place.

About me - I'm a trans woman and I'm plus sized, I'm working on my weight but it's a long journey with setbacks along the way. - you can find me on FetLife under the same username (fyi my bio on there is a little old and I'm not sure how accurate it is currently)

What I'm into

• I enjoy not only the physical aspect of kink but more so the mental aspect of submission. I enjoy giving up control.

• I enjoy most things that have an element of humiliation or pain.

• I enjoy being restrained.

• I desire an amount of power exchange on the regular, whether it be as simple as a dominant picking my outfit for me a couple days a week, or as intimate as a dominant deciding when I'm allowed to orgasms, and maybe even enforcing it with chastity.

-I'm currently in a real pet play mood. I've never tried it with a dominant but I keep returning to the fantasy of being put in a dog collar and being led around on a leash. (Although ironically I lean more cat girl than dog girl but you can walk cats too I suppose)

-I'm a massive pain slut and a bit of a humiliation sub. Long term with a partner hope for some level of power exchange be it as simple as someone else picking my outfits or as tantalizing as orgasm control.

My kinks are: bondage, butt plugs, collars, control, degradation, discipline, edging, hair pulling, humiliation, impact play, nipple play, obedience training, praise, orgasm control, orgasm denial, pain, power exchange, punishment, remote-control devices, toys, vibrators, voyeurism

My hard limits are: cock and ball torture, needle play, sissy play, small penis humiliation, Sounding, scat