Just to preface this, I will not respond to low effort replies, kink lists, one sentence messages, using titles/honorifics, complaining about Dommes, etc

Also, I'm looking for someone in Asia or Europe. It's much easier in terms of time zones and the potential of meeting each other.

Ok here we go. I'm a 31 year old Asian Domme who discovered kink fairly recently. I mean I knew about it for a while but I was still ashamed of my inclinations until I realized I can express my sexuality in a healthy way with no shame or guilt. I'm also looking for someone who reconciled with their submissiveness and isn't ashamed of it. I also like subtle displays of my dominance in public (for instance, I'm ordering for both of us at a restaurant). But overt public play is not my thing (e.g. general public, bdsm parties and such).

Dating is a gamble and there are no guarantees and I'm looking for a long term female-led relationship in unlikely places. I'm not going to list my kinks or jump into the dynamic right away. I'd like to see if we click as human beings first. Incorporate 'Pallas's cat' into your first message. I've learned the hard way that people who were super compatible with me in terms of kinks were actually incredibly incompatible with me in various other ways. That's some cruel irony right there lmao.

Some of my hobbies are watching stand up comedy, podcasts by comedians, reading autobiographies, visiting art galleries, and ofc music. I like spending time with my family. I also like rewatching my favourite movies and shows. I'm honestly not into the typical reddit stuff like videogames, anime, or board games (my introduction to reddit was super random). But I don't mind indulging in my special sub's hobbies every once in a while.

My age limit is 28 (NO EXCEPTIONS) to 38 (someone a bit older is no big deal). I would also prefer to exchange pics early on and verify.

Also, I'm looking for something monogamous, not interested in polyamory. Married people pls find somebody else lol.

That goes without saying but I'm a lifestyle Domme so obviously I'm not looking for monetary exchange.

Cheers :)