Petite southeast asian, heteroflexible, cisgender, fit/average runner, postgraduate degree, highly-organized, introverted, sometimes anxious, always trying to be kind.
My ideal partner is accomplished, reserved, reliable, and about 43-48 years old. Someone I look up to, admire, and trust to care for and abuse me in just the right amounts.
I am looking for a committed long-term relationship.
KINK-WISE:
I am still learning and evolving but have a strong starting sense of what I enjoy and find fulfilling.
- roleplay, narrative, dialogue, dirty talk, all things verbal
- cnc, reluctance, coercion
- abuse, humiliation, degradation
- caregiving, nurturing, spoiling
- rules and tasks, training
- displaying, sharing, lending
I hope to continue exploring primarily in the container of bedroom-based roleplay. I can see gradually expanding into more mundane aspects of our shared life until we find the right balance. I don't think I would be interested in a full-on 24/7 dynamic.
OTHERWISE:
I like quiet activities: reading and writing fiction, playing both classical and modern pop piano, cooking, tidying, napping in the sun. With a friend or partner, I like long conversations while cuddling and also comfortable silences while we attend to our separate thoughts and tasks. I would get up and go out for a long walk or run, a sunny patio with a strong drink and something salty, a good seafood restaurant, or an artsy performance.
Also: I have a cat, I don't intend to leave Boston anytime soon, I'm very independent and am used to having a lot of personal space but I'm open to thoughtful cohabitation, I am open to certain kinds of ethical non-monogamy, I'm not sure when I'll be ready for children if ever, and I would like to take things slowly.
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