I'm a kink explorer on the prowl for some new thrills! 47, 5'9", white European, fit, sane, educated, only play safe and get tested regularly.

I don't define myself by having a specific kink.. I do LOVE playing across age gaps though. Beyond that, in my ideal play situation, the fun stuff emerges from the encounter between two or more people, finding out how to take each other to ever-new heights of ecstasy and depths of depravity. Consent, communication, respect, trust and aftercare are the essential ingredients for getting there. As well as playfulness, tactility, fun and the sweet pleasure of transgression.

That said, I’m definitely more on the Dom side, although I can also switch in the right kind of company. Play that I LOVE and feel pretty natural with include:

• gangbangs, sex parties and bukkake (both participating and organising)
• playing with couples
• slut training and introducing newcomers to play in ways that they feel safe and cared for
• risky play in public places
• humiliation and servitude (giving)
• rough sex and CNC
• spanking, slapping and choking
• pleasure Domming and pussy worship
• restraints
• role play
• DP

The relationship stuff

I’m ethically non-monogamous, and my dating style is somewhere around solo poly and relationship anarchy. I think that it's possible to have meaningful and profound connections on various levels – it’s all about figuring out what works for everyone involved in the process.

I'm taking the friends part in 'friends with benefits' seriously, and I really enjoy connecting with those whom I play with on all sorts of levels. I enjoy the company of people who are thoughtful, caring and kind in the way they deal with others, something that I also strive to be as well. Sounds like your kind of thing? Drop me a line and let's enjoy some special moments!