I want, no need someone to befriend me, learn how I tick and all my little quirks, and then seduce me. Make me wonder what it would be like to be under you, on my knees for you, slapped by you. And after it’s over be back to your kind, sweet self making sure I’m ok with soft and sweet words, make me tea, give cuddles and rub lotion on my sore spots. But this all takes time to build trust, so if you don’t have the patience then it’s not gonna work. I’m looking for a slow burn, where I become desperate to be your sub. Patience is bitter but its fruit is sweet.

A little about me:

I’m a sub looking for a long term dom. I am a switch and have experience with both sides but there’s just something about giving yourself to the right person, I’ve been dying to scratch that itch lol.

I’m definitely a shy person and need a bit of time to come out my shell. Personality wise I've been told I'm very easy going and have a very chill vibe. I’ve been described as having orange cat energy but I'm not sure how true that is. I love to be silly but also know when it's time to be serious.

I have a lot of hobbies and interests, so I always have a lot to say on any given topic. I do have adhd which sort of makes my thoughts jump around but I promise I'll try to stay on topic lol. Some things I enjoy are; cooking, baking, anime, gaming, gardening, and camping/hiking.

A few other things to mention:

• I am ethically non mong (dating 🍦atm)
• I am 5’10 and plus sized (size 14)
• I’m not white
• I’m in NNJ

Kinks

So, I have about 10 years of experience and I definitely know what I like. I have a large collection of kinks and I’m always up for trying something new or pleasing my partner with something I’ve never done before. Here are just a few that I like off the top of my head:

• Humiliation
• Bondage
• Degradation
• Hucow
• Spanking
• Pet play
• Age play/Cgl
• Orgasm control/denial
• cnc
• Impact play
• Water sports
• Rp and outfits

There are def more but we can get into it later

Limits-

• Anything illegal
• Cutting/blood
• Scat/vomit
• Sounding
• Race play

What I’m looking for:

• A Dom/switch
• Between 24-45
• Long term
• Preferably an irl dynamic (or online for a great connection)
• Also enm or poly or open to it
• D/D free with exception of 420 and alcohol
• Some experience preferred but new is ok too. . - include your favorite color so I know you read this
• Respects consent and is kind, thoughtful, considerate, funny and we vibe

Please message me with basic info about yourself, maybe include a picture and just remember, I’m looking for that slow burn.

I’m also looking for friends in the community so don’t be scared to say hi 😊