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I am a 32 year old diehard Wisconsinite and Dom who is gainfully employed, financially stable, and of stable mental health.

I am the stereotypical Midwest man who loves to grill and cook, waters his vegetable gardens with a Miller High Life in one hand and a hose in the other, can hang a level picture on the wall, can haggle like a pro at flea markets, and knows how to tell when a burger is done by color. And yes, I do say "ope" more times than I would like to admit.

I am 5’9”, have hazel eyes, and light brown hair. I have been called attractive and take time in curating my appearance. I work out a few days per week, eat well, keep my appearance trimmed and clean, and am definitely someone you could introduce to your grandmother. My fashion ranges from Tony Soprano to Midwest Dad-gore to respectable professor.

I was first introduced to BDSM at the age of 21 and the empowerment and confidence I felt about myself has propelled me to new heights that I did not think achievable. I am a natural born Type-A so I am great at knocking projects out of the park as well as worrying about the minisule aspects of a task. I am an open book in discussing who I am so ask any questions you have.

On the kink side of life, I love creampie, breast play, orgasm control and denial, impact play, anal and vaginal stretching, toys/objects/insertions, humiliation, and quite a few more. If you do not see a kink you like listed here, just ask!

So, who does this Miller High Life powered, managerial thinking, sometimes funny Dom want in his life? Well... ideally a CIS woman who is grounded, of healthy of mind and body, who has interests and hobbies of her own, and who cares about her appearance without being vain. A partner who is honest, adventurous, communicative, and who treats service industry staff with kindness will mesh with me.

I would prefer someone who is active, has hobbies and interests of their own, is a strong communicator, and who can beat me at croquet (I am pretty, pretty, pretty good). If you get the reference with that, you have already won my heart (R.L RIP). Additionally, I would like to meet a woman located within North America so that time zones align better, and so that eventual relocation could be discussed. Lastly, someone with a sense of humor. Hit me with your best joke!

If you are willing to learn the "don'tchas" and "opes" about life, then I'm the man you should be speaking to!

Shoot me a message if this rings a bell with ya. Let's discuss your favorite cheese!