Recently I made a post, but I don’t think it was clear what exactly what type of dynamic I am searching for, so I am going to make this one simple.
BDSM is not new to me. I have experience in various roles and dynamics. I have had one vanilla relationship with a woman and I am attracted to women, but what I am looking for right now is a Dominant, Master, Mentor or Daddy.
I read Mary Oliver. I listen to classical music. I am a writer. I am fond of all things metaphysical. I prefer to stay active outside in nature vs going to a gym. I have a daily meditation practice, which helps keep me grounded (I am prone to overthinking).
What am I looking for?
A firm partner. Someone who is patient and who does not have an impulsive temper. I prefer a disciplinarian, someone who is rigid when it comes to rules and protocol but flexible and open minded enough to allow me to be who I am. In the past, there is a tendency for the D/s aspect of the relationship to gradually disappear once there is a bond established. I do not want that to happen. I want my partner to be an anchor for me, and that includes hierarchy, accountability, consent and agreed upon pillars that keep our foundation strong.
I prefer text initially and eventually moving to another app and then making voice calls. First I need to feel safe and secure, then you take the lead and we figure out the timing together. I am open to relocation.
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