First things first, gentleman if your wife/girlfriend/partner doesn’t know your messaging me please don’t waste my time. You should both be on the same page and ready to chat, at the very least being curious about discussing a friendship/connection with a dominant. I do expect all three of us to chat together (on 3 different accounts at the same time) pretty much from the begining. Now that we have the obvious out of the way.

I’m a 43 year old dominant Male who would best describe myself as a caring/gentle Dom. That doesn’t mean play can’t extend to some darker, edgy or kinkier fun, but overall my connection and non-play approach is very caring and gentle. I have more than a few years of long term experience in online Dom/sub play. Primarily I’d say I’m looking for an online an connection, at least at first, but please be relatively close to US East coast time zone, those in NC or surrounding states to the front of the line.

What am I looking for? That’s a great question that I’m not exactly sure how to answer. Most importantly I’m looking for friendship, good honest conversation and some sort of connection with a submissive identifying couple (switch female could be interesting). For the sexy or kinky side I’m not sure, orgasm control, edging, denial and stretching are high on my list, but I’m very open to seeing where things go. The journey and conversation is a huge part of the fun with kink in my opinion!

Conversations are completely private, and 100% judgement free at all times, I would never look down on someone else’s interests as long as it’s sane, safe, and consensual. I find the BDSM/Kink community to be so refreshing because it’s full of true honest people exploring together.

I’m sure you two are out there somewhere, I just hope you happen to stumble upon my post before it falls to the depths of reddit. If it’s still up I’m still looking, so take the chance and send a message, I promise nothing but good honest conversation and I don’t bite. Hope to hear from you both soon.