Good morning my gorgeous people. This may not belong here but I think it's important, maybe I'm just peeved and need to get it off my chest.
So we're all here because we're looking for a partner for whatever dynamic you align with. It's never wracking and exciting I get it, but what on earth is going on with our process? I'm tired of talking to a "Dom" (you know why it's quoted, don't play with me today) who immediately demands to be called a title and calls me a pet name. It's inappropriate and disrespectful. We don't have anything yet, neither of us have earned it. If I went around calling everyone master or daddy it loses value no?
I might be wrong but I think you should at least have a basic amount of chemistry to enter a relationship that both emotional and physical that's if it's not romantic for you. If you want to be even more, you need to be even deeper with that person. That takes more than a 20 minute conversation.
We're all adults and know interact as such. But maybe we can actually talk before it devolves into "here's my shlong now call me daddy"
-Its okay to ask about people and previous experiences -its okay to set boundaries and time frame -you should know how you they handle stress and conflict - when you're ready talk about limits and triggers
Personal opinion: my submission is earned, it's a gift for someone I RESPECT and CARE for. I'm not going to give it to just the first person who demands it.
What do you look for when you're feeling someone out? Let's get some questions going
Okay.... End of .... whatever this is
Laters, Ami x
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