Hi there!
Its been a bit since I last posted, and I've started to get lonely and kink starved so I thought I would see who is out there. My ideal result from this post would be to find two separate partners for long term conversations and either IRL or Online play, one sub and one Dom/me, although I am not against finding a switch so long as we outline boundaries/determinants of when switching occurs. To add, I would not be looking for more than one sub nor more than one dominant.
A little about me: I'm a decent looking, masculine looking guy. I'm white 5'9'' 210 with a beard. I'm HWP, but definitely not skinny, much more a football player build transitioning into a dad bod. I have some salt and pepper starting to the beard/hair as well. I've been involved in kink for 20 years and have plenty of experience as both a Dom and sub. Outside of kink I am a really regular guy, I dress well, I communicate well, I have a masters degree and a good job. For hobbies I love golfing, playing board games, sports, bourbon, reading, binging random Netflix shows. I enjoy playing classic video games as well, but usually go on long hiatuses without playing when life gets busy. I was able to play the RE4 remake recently though!
Kink wise, here is an updated kinklist for what I'm looking for now:Â https://i.imgur.com/dF5NGyQ.png
Things that I'd add that I love in play: I love ballbusting (both giving and receiving), prostate stimulation (receiving, but quite open to giving), and I have a very big cum eating fetish/all around oral fixation. I also love orgasm control (giving/receiving), S&M, watersports, plenty more. I'd also add that I think panties both look sexier and feel sexier than traditional dude undies, I love wearing them even though I'm a macho guy.
As a sum I'm desperate to please. Hearing my Dom(me) say "It would make me so happy if..." will get me to do just about anything. If you tell me something is making you wet I just want to do it more. That could be worshipping you, taking full force kicks to the balls, stretching my ass to its limit, or just about anything else. To pair with wanting to please I also want to earn any releases I'm given. I've had so much fun in the past doing some agreed upon challenges to do this, and we can talk more about that if you'd like. I love playful sadists who love to tease, and I respond strongly to verbal tops who can humiliate well.
As a Dom I am a very visual person. I prefer feminine subs from a petite type to a little chubby, but overweight is not a good fit for me. I'm a gentle but sadistic Daddy Dom type. I love to tease and have you begging. I love to make you beg for pain to earn your release. Applicable to IRL only - I much prefer penetration with toys than myself. After I cum I need the normal male break - and I like to have long sessions. You would really need to work to earn permission to earn that, but of course I should cum before you, right?
As for you, you don't have to be experienced with kink, just kinky. I think I'm a good teacher, but I do look for someone who has interests/fantasies and not just "I'm open to anything."
Hope to hear from you soon!
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