I'm looking for a very specific sort of person, someone whose weirdness complements my own, someone with whom I can develop a genuine connection. Like, I'm very caring and affectionate, but I can also be pretty acerbic and cynical. I'm a diehard romantic, but I'm also exceedingly horny and am extremely candid about sex. I have a strong urge to care for the people around me, but I also have a deep (and often unacknowledged) need to be cared for, myself. I'm also very knowledgeable about a wide variety of topics, and I'm constantly learning new things (though they're not guaranteed to be particularly useful things).
In the bedroom, my style of domination tends to be affectionate and pleasure-focused, but mischievous. I enjoy long, slow teases, edging partners until they're begging for release, and getting in their heads to learn what turns them on the most. My own kinks include breeding, being worshiped and adored, free use (mutual), breeding, mild to moderate roughness, light bondage, and breeding. Here is a more detailed kink list, but be advised that it doesn't seem to work on mobile browsers.
The most basic things I require of a partner are that they be 25-35 (the closer to my age, the better), a non-smoker, that they want kids (but ideally don't yet have any), are politically left-wing, and aren't caught up in any scams/conspiracy theories (crypto, anti-vax, etc.). Given the specificity of what I'm looking for, I expect we'll start out online, and move to IRL when the time is right. It's important that there be a strong rapport before anything sexual happens, however, my sex drive is such that I'm down to get frisky more or less immediately once that rapport is established and I like you enough to want to make you come your brains out, and while I respect boundaries, it'd be ideal if you were similarly eager.
For more detailed requirements, it's hard to properly articulate the personality type I'm looking for, the kind I can really gel with. Someone who likes fiction with metatextual themes, who likes weird humor in the vein of Adult Swim's "infomercials", who likes expressing themselves through tabletop role-playing games, who enjoys old movies and TV just as much as modern stuff, who loves to analyze media rather than just consume it. This isn't the fullness of it, but if any of that applies to you, then it's a good sign we'll get along.
If you read all that and are interested, feel free to message me or send a chat request. You can also read through previous posts I've made if you want to learn a bit more about me. Please include in your message specific details about how the preceding paragraph applies to you, so that I know you read it. I get a lot of messages from people who like the idea of a serious relationship, but who ignore all the things I've said I need in order to actually establish such a relationship, so I will no longer be replying to those messages. Thank you very much for reading, and have a nice day.
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