Met a really amazing person last time posted here, figured l'd try again.

43/m based in Richmond VA looking for a regular FWB. Someone intelligent, funny, kinky, and submissive when playing, who enjoys being used in as many different ways as we can think of together. Outside of playing, it is essential that you are your own independent person.

Open to more than FWB if those feelings are there, a long-term thing would be amazing, but I am not interested in forcing something to be more than it is.

I can be very dominant and rough. I can also be sweet and loving. Consent is everything. Hard limits always respected. Aftercare is essential for everyone.

Interested in most forms of gender expression, though I tend to lean more towards the femme or androgynous then the traditionally masculine (I got that covered). Queer is beautiful. Open to all races/ethnicities.

No fascists. No active military. No law enforcement. ACAB.

18 obviously, really more like 28-30 at a minimum, because lol at you kids thinking you're ready for this.

Not into intentional shit play/diapers, any form of financial play, blackmail/other illegal activities, or age regression. Probably either into or at least willing to talk about nearly everything else. Bonus points if you like to eat ass or have masochistic tendencies (especially impact play) that we can have fun with. If you are not into those specific things, don't let that stop you if you think we might otherwise get along.

Would consider couples if you're something special together.

Try treating me like a real person from the start and we'll get along so much better.

Tell me about yourself including the last thing you read or listened to that you loved (this is mostly to see who actually has read this far) and generally what you are looking for.

Pics required before meeting irl but that can take as long as it needs to for both of us to feel comfortable.

Communication and honesty are key.

Low effort replies (especially from blank profiles) will be ignored. I don't need a novel in your first message (feel free though if that's your kink) but "hey" probably isn't going to get a response.

Looking for real life, not online only. Please be within a reasonable distance of RVA (we can figure out what that means together).

If you are regularly into drugs other than weed or the occasional trip, please pass me by.

I'm picky. You should be too.