Hey!

This is a bit of a read so I hope you are comfortable! The TLDR of it is — if you are new to BDSM and either have a million questions or just a handful - about dynamics, dominance, primal, pet play, whatever - I’m a message away if you feel like talking!

If you do want to message me but find yourself anxious and lost for words or writing only to delete at the last second, send me a ☘️ emoji and I’ll know you want to talk and I’ll try to get the ball rolling. Just know you are more than welcome!

So howdy. I’m a 36 year old primal dominant from Australia. Every so often I like to leave this floating in the interwebs — just in case it reaches the mind of someone that’s perhaps new to BDSM or curious about Dominance / submission and they’re feeling frazzled and overwhelmed and need to talk.

Would you like to? You’re more than welcome. Don’t even second guess it. I know what it’s like to be at the beginning of that journey — when I started off learning about my dominance and my deepest, darkest fantasies, I was a sweaty, nervous wreck. I thought I was insane. More than that I was terrified! Of rebooting my life, rewriting my love language. Starting anew. I had no one to talk to about it.

But now I’m a little older and a little more knowledgable I thought I’d start this ad and reach out, maybe connect and help someone like me that wants to vent or talk or discuss kink.

I know this is the Internet where the Creepazoids from Planet X can lurk so if you want to get to know me better before we talk BDSM, ask away. Whatever is most comfiest. I enjoy chatting! Just look at this wall of text!

If you’re wondering about mentoring, I’d just like to say — it’s completely platonic. There’s no dynamic there, no titles shared, no sexual activity. It is simply having me there as a guidance counsellor of sorts - talking through ideas and concepts and safety and being a sound board for you to bounce feelings and ideas off. If that feels like a one way street to you, like you’re taking and not giving, know that my satisfaction comes from just being able to help! I’m just here to help out and pass on what I know for as long as you feel comfortable or would like.

So if you’re curious, please don’t self-edit. Don’t delete. Don’t hesitate. Your feelings and fantasies are valid! There’s no judgement here, even if you’re inexperienced. We all start somewhere and I’ll be here to chat if and when you are wanting to. But you’ve got this regardless of me! Keep going!

Still here? Awesome! Here’s a bit about me:

So I’m introverted. Bit of a quiet homebody. I like my books and my movies and my quiet days under a blanket naked reading or writing. Some of my stories are under my profile if you want to read.

I like hot sauces and heavy metal and Mexican food and pugs and being naked out in the rain and Disney animated movies.

As a Dom, I consider myself a primal, which is just a way of being intimate - getting back to an animal state of mind: all growling and running naked and licking and biting and being free to express that side of my love language. I love nature and storms and being naked out in the rain. I like collars and leashes and exploring each other’s minds and fantasies. That’s beautiful to me. I find freedom and beauty in that.

I can tell you that l see being primal as a pact to myself. To be open without fear to myself and to others and to life itself. To challenge this anxiety within me. It’s become a lifestyle choice in a way - to be my truest self. Not to be an ass or anything but to be present and not trapped by my own self doubt. To live, not exist.

Annnnd I’m going to stop this novel here. If you’re still with me, thank you for reading and please don’t hesitate to reach out! Either in a message or chat. Chat notifications can be wonky sometimes.