Also for like, a relationship.

A bit about me: 6'2", ~165lbs, hazel eyes. I'm an athletic/nerdy hybrid class - I love staying active, exploring the depths of what geek-dom has to offer, and secretly being a lot more goth than my dress code would suggest.

I have a pretty big range of hobbies I love - none of them are really deal breakers but I'd love to find someone who shares at least a few!

I love getting outside and hiking a mountain. There's nothing quite as satisfying as trail mix at the top peak.

Let's play a tabletop game! You'll probably think it's all fun and games, playing Lord of the Rings with me. Right up until the armies of Moria are kicking in the door of Rivendell and it dawns on you that mistakes have been made. Or a video game! I love both co-operative and competitive.

I absolutely thrive going to see live music. Tell me about your most recent concert? I usually go for alt-metal or pop-punk, but I'm on board with just about anything I can dance to. This summer I have a bunch of shows I'm looking forward to all around the tri-state area, and considering traveling to see some more elusive acts I've had my eye on.

I also really enjoy all types of crafting, particularly anything that involves wood working, painting, electronics and pop-culture. Whether it's a Hash-Slinging-Slasher night light, or the Majora's Mask mirror shield I usually have a bunch of fun project ideas in the works to make and proudly decorate my home with.

When I'm not doing any of the above, I spend my time working as software developer in the medical industry. I'm a pretty well functioning adult; I do my own cooking, cleaning, and even pay my taxes. What a low bar I've cleared, 10/10!

Kink-wise I identify as a sub leaning switch, who would be happy with or without the "switching" part. If you're strictly a top that's great! Want it mix it up occasionally, that's good too! Either side of the slash, I just enjoy participating! Happiest a bit closer to "lifestyle" than "only in the bedroom", but having been involved in kink for most of my adult life I'm well aware nothing is truly "24/7".

Much more into the "BD" than the "SM", but also always wanting to explore and experiment. A small sample of things I love are body worship, physical bondage (leather cuffs, collar and leash, etc), non-permanent chastity and begging. Some hard limits are heavy impact play, anything with needles or knives, and sounding. If we click we can talk more about it later; I'd rather know more about who the heck you *are* first!

I'm looking for someone who is at least a little interested at the thought of any of the above. Someone who can match my energy - both physically, as well as the mental energy of being a total sass-a-frass from time to time. And someone close enough physically that I can actually see you in person!

If that's you, I'm looking forward to hearing from you! Ask me what crafts I'm working on. Challenge me to a game of tennis. Agree to get dance your heart out with me at a show. Consent to getting your butt kicked at a game of your own choosing! Or ask me something completely different because I'm not the boss of you!

P.S. If you send me SpongeBob memes I'm effectively already yours.