I'm an older natural Dominant/Daddy Dom who would like to find a younger sub or little that would be interested in an on-going relationship (not just a ONS). I prefer someone local to the San Diego area, but I will consider OC/LA/IE areas if we are able to get together from time to time. At this time, I'm not looking for an online only relationship, but it could start that way if we later get together.

Before I get into my interests, I'll be honest with you by mentioning that I'm attached and not looking to change that. My relationship is not an open-marriage or ENM situation, so you would need to be okay with that situation. I know there are married or attached female subs/littles out there who are also having a hard time finding a partner they can play freely with, so if that's the case, I'd love to hear from you. Of course single women are welcome too. :)

If you're even remotely curious and want to know more, please chat or DM me and we can talk further. I'm experienced as a Dom and Daddy Dom, and I'm very open minded about just about anything. If you have an idea or kink, I'm sure I will love it. :) I'll openly and honestly answer any questions or concerns that you have for me, no holds barred, so it doesn't hurt to shoot a note and we can see if we're a match. Physically, I'm white, very tall, dad bod, in decent shape and active, silver/brown hair, hazel eyes, and a goatee.

From a BDSM perspective, I can play in either D/s or DDlg spectrums, and I have done so for quite a while. I never treat any sub the same as any other past sub. Your needs and desires are unique to you, so I see my job as learning what turns you on, and fulfilling what you're looking for. I am into bondage and restraints, age play, TPE, degradation, humiliation, cnc/semi-cnc, oral fetishes, cum play, teasing, aftercare, cuddling, physical intimacy, dirty talk, exhibitionism/sharing, sexy clothes, nipple/breast play, service subs, brats, anal, and more. I'm a soft Dom with a strict flair, so I guess I lean more on the controlling and demanding side, but with a firm love of aftercare and praise for my sub or little. I'm open to any race, age, size, shape, and hair color. :)

Please reach out if interested! Let's chat, even if it goes nowhere, at least we took a shot. My only request is that if you don't think we're a match anytime after we chat chatting, please just tell me. I totally understand and am fine with that, but I hate being ghosted and would prefer you just be honest with me. Thanks!