Let's have our first date be going to the Brooklyn Botanical Gardens to see the cherry blossoms in full bloom, walking underneath them and holding hands like in Anime Rom-Coms and you get to Street Fighter punch me across the street because of how embarrassed you are at the Public Display of Affection.

People often ask me when they find out I'm a Dom "Wait, aren't you a feminist? How can you follow that lifestyle if you believe in women's rights?" One can completely be both. A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but MY slut, MY cocksleeve, MY cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, you. You look to me as your mentor, trainer, your pillar of strength. You want me to help make decisions because I am more worldly and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach you and help you through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.

I may come across as a very soft Daddy at first but that's because I believe being a Daddy is earned, not something you force right off the bat. Some girls might enjoy being forced into submission from the get go but that's not obviously for me. I firmly believe in equality in every relationship and to me in a ddlg, that means I have to earn being called Daddy. My rules and guidelines are all something to be discussed WITH you, not FORCED on you. You get to pick and choose how you want to submit to me out of what I like my little to do, not something I want you to do just so I can get my rocks off. I get enjoyment out of seeing my little enjoy submitting to me.

I love the other BDSM(Batman, Dungeons and Dragons, Star Wars, and Mech Anime), cooking, photography, PC building and gaming, PS4 and PS5, manga, anime, comics, reading in general, and I love watching NFL football. I am not one of those crazy guys who is constantly yelling at the screen tho, if my New York Giants are doing terrible I just turn on a video game and take my frustrations out on poor pixelated bad guys.

I've been broken, damaged, whatever term you want to throw at it nowadays. I've been hurt multiple times and I've been shattered into pieces... Hopefully I can find my missing piece soon that fits my mess. I want to feel like Superman, I want to be able to do it all, to be the best friend, the emotional pillar, the handyman, the one to fix everything, to be amazing in bed and out of it, to bear the weight of all your burdens too...

But sometimes I'm just a guy.

My deal breakers are please don't be a trumper, anti-BLM, anti-vaxx, flat earther, and anti-science. And try to be healthy both physically and mentally. I don't care if you enjoy snacking and drinking just have self control. If you have depression, please actively seek out therapy. Or at least have a healthy coping hobby that helps like painting and drawing. I'm not trying to downplay how difficult mental health issues are, just being succinct. I am very familiar with how hard it can be and I know the burden it can be on a partner. Please show you can fucking read by including "I wish to submit" somewhere in your message.

I would prefer someone close to NYC but anywhere is fine as long as you actually want to meet and are serious. I look forward to hearing from you princess.