I need a sub I can invest my time, energy, and resources to better both of us - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and watching you evolve. I embrace the rules based structure and discipline of BDSM and expect the same in my sub. The lifestyle has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. My ability to connect with a sub and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience. In short, we will have a meaningful relationship that incorporates a healthy level of kink.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm, self-employed and have flexibility in travel and schedule. Vanilla interests include physical fitness, backcountry hiking, gaming, and all things history/culture/diversity and writing. I am well educated and a professional yet free spirited. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg, restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years.

You: My main requirement is serious intent. I don't have strict physical requirements only that you are reasonably attractive and take care of yourself. Preference to the self-aware, mental healthy savvy, and those that embrace BDSM as more than a kink. Currently I spend my time between Las Vegas, Huntsville, Florida, and the Gulf Coast so prefer you be within driving distance or travel ready. Not interested in poly or complicated domestic situations.

If interested, I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility. This doesn't have to be complicated, we discuss my ground rules, approach, have a few conversations to ensure we have some common interests, swap pics, craft a mind blowing scene, then make it happen. This is where fantasy meets reality, I deserve it and so do you. The first step is you DMing me your interest in my approach.