31 M (NB in identity but masculine in nearly all appearances) he/him

Relational: Demi (straight-ish) Poly and Partnered (happily married(F)) w/ a potential additional partner(NB) No drama/conficts

Physical: 5'11" Short Brown hair Medium brown beard Brown eyes 155 lb, Average build/dad bod, recently lost 30lbs and trying to gain muscle and flexibility back from a depressive season (remedied by a med change), historically slim.

A few tattoos (that I will be adding to) Big hands (surprisingly small feet) Great lips (I've been told) No ass to speak of (I'm so sorry, it's on my list aight?) Hairline is receding, but not terrible yet (thanks Dad) Some grey hair (thanks mom). I occasionally paint my nails, (neutral-ish colors with a matte finish)

Desires: Would love someone local-ish, but online is great too. Gentle Femdom/Mommydom/nurturing benevolent goddess vibes. Looking for a dynamic based on genuine trust, connection, and growth. I need to trust that I'm safe with someone else in control (cozy FLR vibes, is that a thing?) If we could have a legitimate friendship that would be awesome.

In a Dom: under 40, Prefer experience regardless of age, AFAB, A proportionally similar or fitter body type, you don't have to be perfect🤗, in-fact I prefer natural/real/authentic vibes but open to a variety of aesthetics. (my specific type is apparently autistic feral lesbian hippies/Bois/tomboys 😅)

Hoping to work on various aspects of myself though the dynamic such as:

Gaining confidence/assertiveness,

Getting my sub needs met so I can be a better Dom,

Overcoming disassociation from my body/embracing presence in my body prioritizing self-care.

Personality, interests, and lifestyle: I'm goofy, genuine, and transparent. Apart from my lack luster confidence, I don't take my self too seriously, I enjoy dark humor in the appropriate contexts.

I'm a bit of a stoner (but it's not my whole personality 😜)

I drink regularly but rarely have more that 2-3 drinks

I love to build, fix and tinker, I have too many hobbies to list but a few are: blacksmithing, woodworking, leatherworking, distilling, camping, hiking, select video games.

I'm a nerd for: science fiction and fantasy, literary theory and narrative structure, mechanical engineering, theology and philosophy, building science, Pathfinder (TTRPG), music and film/TV/anime (I'm particular, but not pretentious).

I have 4 dogs, work in construction management, happily married to my best friend who is a therapist, bi, autistic, and cute AF.

Temperament: Anxiety, inattentive ADHD, perhaps a "touch of the tism" (honest/transparent/clarity in communication), timid/cautious in new situations/interactions. I default to a caregiver role IRL because I'm good at it and I care for people deeply, (and I burn myself out before I realize I'm overextending myself.) I'm thoughtful, kind, and gentle.

Kinks: JOI, JOE, performing/recording Tributes, receiving genuine praise, communication, accountability/minor control, audio, bondage, prostate play, pegging, performing productive tasks, incest (roleplay/taboo factor only), praising/worshipping of my current partners and or my Dom (potentially you).

Limits: imposed behavior that affects my relationships, findom, forced bi, sissification, pain, scat, degradation, cuckold, rape, extreme age play, abuse(any kind), extended chastity, RL incest content

If you're interested in any of that☝🏻HMU via chat with your ASL, a pic, and how many 🐕 I have.

If this post is up I'm still looking 😬

If your gonna ghost or selling anything kindly fuck off (respectfully)😘