I'm hoping to find a local sub to build a meaningful dynamic with. By meaningful, I want to emphasize that I mean something far more than just kinky activities. To me, D/s is a delicate mental balance between a Dom and their Sub. It is quite easy to find someone to tie up, degrade, [insert any kink here], etc, but it is far different to find someone that truly wants to submit and develop something worthwhile. I'm hoping for the ladder and I have had it before.
I keep an open mind when going into any potential dynamic. I want to learn about a potential partner. Not just their kinks, needs, and limits, but their passions in life and goals, etc. I've found that when I truly know my sub some magical things happen. I've had successful dynamics in the past that have varied in their structure. I've had an amazing 24/7 TPE dynamic where full submission was emphasized and enjoyed. On the other end, I've had an amazing dynamic that was focused solely in the bedroom. The key here was not the exact type of D/s dynamic (or the specific kinks/limits), but the two people involved. I'm very good at crafting a dynamic assuming my partner is honest with me.
If you are in the area and looking for a potential partner, please message me so that we can start a conversation. And yes, we can swap SFW pics to ensure mutual attraction, but for me, the mental component is the most important/attractive part. That being said, I'm handsome with dark hair/eyes if that is your cup of tea. I'm also educated, employed, and have a pretty good life! I'm just hoping to improve it some!
Hope to talk soon.
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