Hello, my name is Marc, and I am back where my journey in Bdsm started. If I remember correctly, 6 months ago, I posted the first time on reddit to find a domme. I had no idea what I was doing and a lot of mistakes were made by me. I also had some unfortunate encounters where I shouldn't blame myself. I wouldn't pretend that I am experienced now, but I have a clear idea of what I am looking for. For the moment, I want to keep it online and preferably in an EU timezone. IRL is always a possibility, but that will most likely take time.

For any domme that is looking for a new sub. At no point in our dynamic will money be part of it. No tribute, not as punishment and in other forms. I am not looking for someone who does this professionally, and I struggle a lot when money is involved . In my opinion, it is not a good idea for the dynamic to have money as a foundation.

It takes at least a week, probably more, before we even start the dynamic. First and foremost, we have to find out how well we get along on a personal level. It would be easier to start early with the dynamic, but I want to build a solid and lasting foundation. In my opinion, getting too fast into the dynamic tends to hide problems that might come up later.

A verification will also need to take place. I don't think that will be a problem. It doesn't have to be right away, but probably in the first few days should be doable.

I will start with what I think I have to offer. I am a very dedicated person, and I am willing to put a lot of effort into our dynamic. I have a little bit of experience as a dom myself. That means that I am aware of how work such a dynamic takes to establish, but also takes to keep going. I will always acknowledge the effots made by my domme and never take the whole dynamic as a given. I know that the tasks will be done by me, but the real work is coming up with taks, controlling them and I will do my best to be helpful and take as work as I can take on the dynamic to keep it fun for the two of us.

I am willing to share content and put effort into it. After some time, when I have a better idea of the way you like to do things, I will do my best to anticipate and prepare myself content that I think you may like. I won't treat this dynamic as an afterthought or do things if time is left at the end of the day. I will take the time that is necessary to make it an enjoyable experience for the two of us.

I would like the dynamic to be on the more gentle side. I am willing to give up a lot of control, but only if we figure out a way to not make it a burden for you. If we take a slower pace at the beginning, the introduction of rules and transfer of power will be gradual and be more manageable.

When it comes to punishment, I will try my best to avoid them and not going to provoke them on purpose for that. You reason you will have a free hand when it comes to that. Only the hard limits should not be part of the punishment.

What I am looking for is a domme who is willing to build a genuine relationship with me and doesn't simply look for a kink dispenser. Outside of the dynamic consent, trust, communication, and safety will be of the utmost importance.

I am mostly into power exchange. My hard limits are scat, urine, blood, money, scars, and injuries.

I am not sure if this post has been made in the right way. I consider it to be in the first place to establish contact. We can start out in DMs or open a chatroom. Thank you for reading. I will, over time, probably edit this post to add missing parts and improve it.

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