I'm a Dom that cares more about establishing a connection than having short term release. To me, being a good Dom means I know the ins and outs of the person on the other side of the play. I want to know what makes you tick, and exactly what buttons to push to get you to do exactly what I want.
Ideally, I want someone that I can start slow with, giving tasks every day, and we can explore our dynamic to see where it goes from there. I'm looking to earn trust first and foremost, so I will not immediately jump into anything more on the extreme side until we've built a relationship where you know you can give your whole body and mind to me with reckless abandon. I want to explore your comforts and slowly peel away the layers of security you have when meeting someone for the first time.
I'm open to moving to IRL if the chemistry is right and I'm also happy to learn and talk to you outside of a NSFW space. Knowing who you are in the real world helps me understand you more when we get to playing. I'm happy to verify if you'll do the same, though it's only important to me if there seems to be chemistry and this can go long term.
Different kinks have different appeal to me depending on the dynamic, I'm willing to explore most. The biggest kink for me is orgasm control. I want to know your body so well that I can get you within a second of a big orgasm and then decide if you've been good enough to earn the release.
Limits include Scat, Gore, Permanent Markings and some other similar extremes that we can get into if they come up
Again, I'm looking for long term, don't message me if you're interested in short term only
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