*this sub is really bad about the tags, but I'm queer and cis guys, trans guys, trans girls, nb, and others are welcome

Hey there. I've posted about these things before, but mostly to chat online. I'm not happy with just that any more. I would love to make a good connection with someone who wants to explore these kinks. Someone who I can develop a fun, mutual, intense and adventurous dynamic with.

In real life, I'm a mild-mannered white-collar professional, hockey player, left wing activist, news junkie and bookworm. Regrettably I'm preparing for grad school. I'm 5'7'' and have a fit-but-chubby cub bod. If you don't like short kings with bellies, click away now. Your loss.

I like dorks. Betas, omegas, simps, cucks, losers, nerds, subby people with a laundry list of weird kinks. I've posted in a furry subreddit about this before, and yeah. I am one. Bring your fursona, or don't. But I'm looking to bring my kinks into reality.

The core thing that drives me is strong and distinct D/s dynamics. Master and slave, Owner and puppy, Daddy/sub. But I am not satisfied by just the bedroom. I like being controlling, caring, domineering, and setting rules that go outside the bedroom. I enjoy when control, power exchange, and dynamics extend to our lives.

I don't want to make you introduce me to your grandma as your Alpha Master. But I want thumb the collar you wear in my house while we cuddle and play video games. Maybe you want a Daddy who can use you like a helpless pet and be a supportive guiding hand providing you structure in your life.

Maybe you want to be turned into an objectified slave, observing strict discipline and ironclad rules, texting me about desperately straining in chastity at work. Maybe you had a crush on your high school bully and want a guy who will lovingly and mercilessly pick on you. Or maybe you want to be the sweet and obedient pet of an adoring Master. Or any mix of the above... I want to fill your need for a strong, caring but firm Dom in your life. And I want us both to love every second of it.

Obligatory laundry list: Control, power exchange, BDSM, humiliation, degradation, chastity, edging, orgasm control/denial, foot worship, puppy and pet play, gooning, heavy bondage, strict discipline and slave training, household service, cuckoldry, musk huffing, it/its pronouns, objectification, the list goes on and on. I have a special interest lately in hypnosis, including mental control, reconditioning and Pavlovian response training. I'm very verbal, and I'm told I have a natural talent.

Limits: Not many besides your usual scat, blood and illegal things. Also ABDL. Sorry baby littles, I'm not the Daddy you're looking for.

But it's not all about me. Bring your kinks, especially your odd ones, fantasies you've wanted to try out, things you were afraid to tell your ex. I want to make them happy, and I want you desperately eager for more every step of the way. If you identify with terms like "omega", "gross" or "simp", we'll really get along.

Important personal details: firstly, I have a partner. We don't play together much, and they know I'm looking for something like this. I'm not looking for hookups - I'm looking for a connection. I'm starting grad school soon, but I want to fit this into my life. I want it to be a real partnership that explores your kinks too.

I'm also bi/queer. I tend towards people who ID as males but I'm open to cis guys, trans guys, trans girls, NBs, queers, other, etc.

If you're interested, let me know. Please put some effort into your response, and mention your age. And tell me what drives you. What you're hoping for. What need you've been trying to fill for some time. I hope to hear from you.