I’m a hopeless romantic who is still idealistic about my person - I’d love to be able to pick him out from a first message. I have realized there are people on different wavelengths and when you find them - you just know.

I’m not interested in chatting with multiple guys as I am very much monogamous once I’m deeply in love. It’s like a spell has been casted and it makes me crave you and no one else compares because they don’t make up all of the little details that make you yourself. It feels like being the luckiest girl in the world even if it’s obvious I’m the one who is the most in love. With this level of devotion it’s expected that you’re monogamous as well. (:

Opposites attract so I’m very drawn to men who are stoic but deep and introspective. Initially not too nice or it feels forced. I like them icy cold but eventually they will sweeten up over time after they’re sure about things. He should also be very receptive to affection even if secretly

He should be intelligent, assertive, insighftul, possessive and problem-oriented. He enjoys the idea of taming and fixing someone to his standards.

I’m demisexual so kink is secondary to connection. It feels so good obsessing over someone and being so emotionally attracted to them that you wonder about every little detail of their daily life, opinions, ideas, insecurities and their past. Please know that if I do fall for you you’re all I’ll ever think of - at least at first (:

Before any commitment we should get to know each other on a deeper level. In order to be specific about the kind of guy that doesn’t do it for me: if we start talking and he’s not curious about who I am as a person, my opinions, past and needs… there’s no attraction if it’s only focused on sex.

You should also be able to question and dissect me like you’re evaluating the chances for a long term relationship.

As far as kink I like extreme things so the more sadistic you are the better. And I mean the kind of sadistic you’d have to hide from society. 🤫 Do you think you can manipulate and traumatize a girl into becoming your personal slave?

I want to be ruined in every way possible until I’m your mindless little doll. And initially you shouldn’t be intimidated by my intelligence, depth or awareness. Eventually you can brainwash me into adopting how you think. I’ll be your property.

It will not be freely given at first because it’s so scary giving too much of yourself for it to not end up anywhere. But that should be part of the conquest and satisfaction that I belong to you. Like being able to appreciate that we’ve reached that point together because I’m truly devoted and not just faking submission for roleplaying.

If you conquer me I will become obsessed with you to such a degree I will completely let go of who I am and you can mold me into whoever you want. Intensity and toxicity is exactly what I’m looking for.

I’d love to be able to dote on you and make your day easier in any way that suits you and just do anything to win your time and approval. That being said, I am looking for commitment and maybe even a family one day.

My looks: 5’5’’ and curvy but wanting to get to thin. Afro Brazilian and I love fashion and dressing up

I’m a masochist and hopeless romantic so it will take someone special to live out that dream, which weeds out a lot of people who are casual about BDSM. Which is fine too.

Please don’t be shy in your first message. Let’s skip the pleasantries and get right into what we’re looking for. There is just a certain vibe from a man that pulls me in instantly :) The first message is the key.