Are you feeling like an abandoned kitten in the rain, or perhaps a lost puppy without its owner? Amidst the vast expanse of the internet, I find myself here, seeking someone special amidst the unconventional backdrop. But beyond mere kinks, I'm searching for my submissive, my companion, my confidant, and my partner. Someone with whom I can engage in deep conversations about the most trivial topics. Someone who delights in sharing random discoveries from their daily commute.

In my journey, I've come to realize that genuine connection is paramount, especially as I seek something enduring and long-term. Thus, while exploring kink is part of my journey, I aim to keep it secondary to our mutual compatibility and shared interests.

Allow me to introduce myself:

I'm 35.

Single and committed to monogamy.

I don't partake in drugs, though I do enjoy sharing a drink or a cup of tea.

Physically, I'm neither extremely fit nor overweight.

Professionally, I'm a coder, finding joy in creating with C# and Javascript.

I'm introverted by nature, preferring the comfort of home, yet still open to occasional outings.

Learning is a passion of mine, extending even to realms like BDSM. I embrace the opportunity to delve into the unknown and expand my horizons.

Lastly, I'm a proud nerd who enjoys gaming, albeit without a competitive streak. I'm more about laughter and camaraderie, particularly on PC games.

So, what am I seeking? Someone with whom I can gradually build a profound connection. While compatibility in BDSM is important, it's equally crucial that we share common ground beyond the realm of kink. This is why I've shared my interests and hobbies – I envision our relationship transitioning from online to real-life, although I'm not inclined towards long-distance arrangements indefinitely.

Regarding the D/s dynamic, I believe it should transcend the bedroom, rooted in trust and affection. I'm patient and willing to take the time needed to nurture our bond, utilizing conversations and shared activities like gaming to facilitate this process.

Why a submissive/pet? I'm drawn to the idea of ownership, not in a possessive sense, but in a way that entails responsibility and care. I thrive on providing safety, affection, and happiness to my partner. Additionally, while I appreciate elements of the Ddlg dynamic, I'm not interested in age-play. And yes, I adore cats and dogs – let's exchange photos and memes!

Had a rough day? Allow me to soothe you, whether through comforting words or gentle petting. The non-sexual aspects of BDSM hold significant importance for me, as does my undivided attention towards my partner. In fact, I welcome clinginess and neediness, seeing it as an opportunity to deepen our connection.

In essence, my primary kinks include bondage, orgasm control/denial, petplay, and protocol/rules. However, this list isn't exhaustive, and I believe in open communication to explore boundaries and desires.

Looking forward to potential connections and meaningful conversations.

And if you are intrigued and wish to reach out, allow me to reciprocate with a brief introduction: I'm a 35-year-old confident based in New Jersey. Standing at 5'8" with brown hair, hazel eyes, and a sturdy build weighing 240 pounds. Outside of my professional endeavors, I share my space with two dogs and two cats.

Having delved into various dominant roles over the past 17 years, such as master and daddy, I've garnered a deep understanding of power dynamics and an extensive array of kinks. I approach my role with skill and attentiveness, seeking a genuine and lasting connection.

I'm in search of a partner who embraces submission, someone unafraid to challenge me while also demonstrating earnestness and dedication. Constant attention and a sincere desire to please are qualities I value, as we work towards establishing a relationship built on trust and effective communication.

Among my interests within BDSM are consensual non-consent (CNC), free use, humiliation, spanking, bondage, orgasm control, and daily rules/tasks. However, I remain open to exploring new desires and pleasures alongside a compatible partner.

I extend an invitation to embark on a journey of exploration and connection, where we can delve into our shared desires and forge a fulfilling dynamic together.

If you've reached the end of this lengthy post, I commend you! Rest assured, I'm not typically this verbose in casual conversation. If you're intrigued, a simple "Hi" won't suffice – share a bit about yourself and what caught your interest in my ad.