Hi there! I'm a true switch looking for friends and play partners who enjoy existing within a hierarchy. I love established power imbalance, and while I am looking for other switches and am open to either Domming or subbing depending on how we click, my intention with this post is to find play partners who I am either distinctly submissive or distinctly Dominant with.
There's just something about hierarchy that I really enjoy. As a Dom, knowing that someone I'm dominant toward has subs of her own makes me feel powerful and important. As a sub, knowing that my Domme has partners that she's submissive to puts me in an extremely subby headspace and fills me with good jealousy.
I'm not looking for formal dynamics here, but I am looking for people with who I can fall into an easy and consistent casually Dominant or Submissive headspace. You know when you have chemistry with someone and you feel a pull toward either Dominance or submission just based on how you interact? I'm looking for that. Of course, I am hoping for flirtation and play as well as good platonic vibes.
A little about me: I love hiking and camping, I read a lot of fiction (mostly sci-fi and fantasy), I watch some sports, and I love animals but don't have any. I'm professional and well educated, and have a job in my field that I'm passionate about. As a Dominant, I fall most naturally into a caregiver or "Daddy Dom" role but I have a pretty distinctly sadistic side as well. As a submissive, I give major good boy vibes and am eager to please.
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