Hello to all the lovely sub girls and ladies, hope this post finds you well.
I'm A. An experienced 31 yo straight Dom from Italy. During the past years, i've grown alot as Dom, and i've refined what i'm truly looking for, which is first a foremost a girl/woman who is capable to intrigue my mind. A good balance between a fervent mind, compatibile personality and what in my eyes would be a good looking girl. I've non standard canons of beauty, i love alternative and shy, nerdy girls, i love glasses, so what could be an imperfection to you is what makes you perfect for me!

I live my Dom side laughing and smiling, no matter the dark turns it may take, i'm not the cold, distant stoic type for sure. I can also be very sweet and romantic (an hopeless romantic actually). But don't let this fool you, i can compliment and kiss gently your neck only to feel it hunder my grasp the second after. I like the mix of these feelings, and the reason why i'm searching for a connection, is because it does fuel my dominant side a lot. So rest assure, within reason i can also be mean, strict and cruel.

Another important example of how i live my being Dom, is that things like: humiliation, degradation, pain and impact play, are enjoyable for me only when they're for you too.

I'm very distant fromt he idea of "a sub should do anything to please his Sir" All the kinks i've mentioned above, i find them interesting, if they either trigger something in you or you find them arousing, if is something forced just to please me i'm happy to leave those out.

In general, i'm very transparent and open, communication is key, and being genuine about our needs and feelings is always strongly encouraged to keep improving the dynamic and make it always better for the both of us. Hiding things or not being able to express your feelings propely, is something that depending on the implications those would lead to, can easily break the dynamic, because is trust is broken is hardly something that can be fixed.

I like to approach your soft boundaries outside playtime and see together if they can be pushed within reason.

About the dynamic i'm looking for:

I like to setup rules together, to be reasonable to follow them for a long time, and willing to adjust if you'll have some changes in your schedule.

I like a more direct play approach, 3-4 times per week, where you'll do as told within your limits. I like longer sessions.

I like to train you and your mind and body to become closer to my ideal vision of a sub.

If you have the chance to read and text during the day i also enjoy to give some tasks at the moment.

I carve control to high degrees, even outside bedroom aspects, but this is something that has to be earned with time and trust, assuming you're willing to give up so much, because if you don't, is fine either way.

Some things i would expect, with time and trust, which means no rush at all are:

Have some toys or willing to buy cheap ones. (hard limit)

Sending voice notes (hard limit)

Sendings pics/videos (hard limit)

Voice calls (not a limit)

Video calls (not a limit)

I would like you to verify early on, SFW pic, not showing face, i'm open to do the same.

Some bonuses:

You're from EU or similar timezones

You have lovense toys for me to control

You'll be open to send me ur panties, one day :)

You're from EU, even better Italy, and willing to move in person or relocate.

You share similar interest to mines (Nature, Hiking, Fantasy and cyberpunk/post apocalyptic genres, tv series, comedy, anime, gaming, music, more specifically: Original Sound Tracks, Shymponical Orchestral and Metal, i'm a former Metal drummer for 9 years).

You can listen to my voice on my profile, and have a look to my fetlife page on my bio where you can also see a pic of myself.

Thanks for taking your time reading, if you're interested please write a brief introductions about yourself, including a physical description and what made you write me compared to many other posts.

Much love,

A.