This is a more updated version of my previous post, mostly nothing has changed except I know more how to define what I want after multiple vetting processes gone wrong or partially right and I learned more than I did before vetting for an on and off again amount of time.

What I’m looking for would more put into terms of a Daddy Dom. I am no age regressing little- though I do still regress so I’ve been put into a term of a type of little which I have minimal understanding of myself. I’m not super into the whole idea of giving up control in a way that it only being my superiors happiness and well being and not my own, which more fits a dynamic for someone who is just a Dom. I believe in a dynamic both parties are giving and recieving an equal amount of affection/care in some way shape or form. The dynamic is equally fulfilling for both parties.

I also know the type of Daddy I aim for more than anything is one who would be called a structured Daddy. These Daddy’s are perceptive, analytic and protective towards their little and they are usually Daddy’s who may work an office or teaching job because of how organized they are when they are being structured. I can show examples as well but, usually I can tell these kind of Doms by their first message to me or their reaction of mine to them. It’s all a matter of if we vet each other out properly.

I have an example of this a created that is purely wholesome if you want to see what I mean!

I wanted to also comment on that I get over 124 messages and most of them are just small sentences or guys being lewd- if I haven’t accepted it may be because of that unless I’m just dumb or wasn’t interested. Most DMs I get usually don’t get accepted because of my anxiety and because there are so many and I don’t want to go accepting 20 DMs at a time.

The last thing is that if you are not a Daddy located in the US or UK, I am sincerely sorry but, these are the only locations I can see something realistically transitioning smoothly into irl either because I know people from these locations are usually willing to relocate or I am willing to relocate. I have no plans on relocating to somewhere crazy as Germany so, I apologize and I do not want to have the high expectation of someone relocating to me if I wouldn’t.

I’ve been in the lifestyle for a very short amount of time. 4 almost 5 years? I’ve only had two Doms in real life- both who seriously have traumatized me so, if I’m being honest- online is a bit scary for me especially after the handful of fake ones I have run onto in the past few months.

After having multiple bad experiences or ones that suddenly ended I am here because, despite the bad, being a little/submissive, giving up control- rather it be in the bedroom or out- making my Daddy Dom happy and allowing him to shape me into the best me I can be, not only for myself but, to his liking and pride too, while I also encourage Him and support him by his side is honestly a feeling I know I will never ever get out of a normal relationship. This is a connection I crave with my whole heart- and I know I’d be stupid if I let it go over a few dropped apples.

So, some things about myself: I’m a single mom. I like to start there because I realize it’s not exactly ideal for most Doms and I’m not here to waste anyone’s time, including my own. I’m a student but, I’ve put that on pause currently to work towards a different goal that has become more of an important priority which I am more than willing to share in a more private conversation! ❤️

I really enjoy reading, I often bounce back and forth from chapter books to manwhas quite often. I have a huge obsession with AIs at the moment- I can talk about them all day and how they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of literature, writing, and so many possibilities. I also enjoy writing obviously. 🙂

I’m a huge gamer, probably far more huge than I’d like to admit. I don’t have a huge preference on if my Dom is so, if he is, ask me about the games I play! Maybe we can spend time together that way every now and then!

Amongst other things, I’m interested in singing, gardening, I’m a huge horror fan, I have interest in instruments, and I’m more of a house cat. I’m more of a leave at home sub that will cook and clean and go about their day indoors while Masters away.

Im looking for a dynamic that is built on an honest feeling, not forced just because we fit the same lifestyle or dynamic. I’m looking for mutual attraction and mutual endearment. I want to find interests in my Doms hobbies, what he talks about, what he likes, and cheer him on in his greatest achievements with sincereness and I want the same from them. There’s a lot more to the dynamic as a lifestyle than kink even though kink is a huge part of it for me as well. I want to endear my Dom, for him to find interest in me, because this is the only way I know he is pleased and happy.

I’m not much of a brat. When I have a Dom, he becomes my entire universe outside of my young. My happiness, safety, and my growth is all dependent on him. I am a very attached sub and he will become the only one I see and when he tells me to close my eyes… I just will.

Onto personality, I am very much a bubbly and actively hyper kitten. I tend to get into trouble quite often without guidance so, I need it constantly and am more than willing to take it. I’m very self-aware and I know where and when I’ve done wrong half the time and can admit it. But, I also tend to be very unaware of others and situations which is where the trouble part comes from.

I may start off shy but, once I’ve gotten comfortable with the Dom I decide to see as my leader and Master, I tend to be a total chatter box so, don’t let the consistent quiet at the beginning scare you away. It’s only temporary.

My Doms personality would be someone who is confident and willing to put in the time and effort into me in the same way he puts into himself. A sub is an extension of their dom and will usually take after them in those ways, good and bad :p

He is between my age and 45- I’d like to be able to be with my Daddy for a very long time.

He is someone who cares more about the mental side of the dynamic and lifestyle and not just the kink even though we are all for the kink.

He is not someone here to manipulate me with lies or money- I have no interest in your money anyways.

He is someone who is consistent, caring, stern, warm, and intelligent but, will not take it lying down from his sub or anyone else. He can be a sadist, a soft dom, or a really strict one. I’m more of a sub who follows the lead of whichever personality type and I’m pretty good at adapting to any of these.

If any of that sounds like you, you may be exactly it for me.

I am not so comfy with posting NSFW kinks for everyone to see and look at and I am also being extremely careful with my words so I do not attract the wrong kind of Dom. But, I am comfortable to say that my kink level and drive are very high and desirable - for long-distance I have a lovesense, and for the main part I am a rope kitten! And I LOVE beards. Outside of the bedroom I am full submissive but, inside I will consistently challenge my Dom to put me in my place.

My physical features are attractive as far as I’ve been told but, I’m not one for having a huge ego, I’m 5’5, mixed race. I do cosplaying and content creating so, I am more than comfortable and willing to show what I look like instantly!

I breathe sleep and long to be near my Dom so, I’m very needy, clingy and affectionate- I sometimes will overdo it but will obey when being redirected. I have experience with being given tasks, rules, schedules, and I’m usually pretty swell about it as long as they’re not sudden.

If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in or you have a questions shoot me a DM! Maybe ask me about something more personal to you!

Please do not DM me with instant NSFW or a simple hi, this will not endear me to respond. You have subs looking for only NSFW as well- so, I don’t see the point of seeking out a sub looking for an actual lifestyle partner 🥲