I seem to have this big thing at the moment for getting dressed up in sexy lingerie and enjoying a night away to myself in a hotel where I can relax and enjoy. I’ve just bought myself a lovely new 38K bra and looking forward to a night away to pamper myself, edge, play, and just unwind. Need your company to encourage me to explore this a little and to share the evening on here with you. It’s not for a few weeks so have plenty of time to get to know each other so get your conversation juices flowing :-) Let’s talk about this and get to know each other. I’ll be waiting for your message.

For just the second time in a long time I’m just going to be clear about what I’m looking for, rather than tying to explain about me like I have something to make up for. So, you are:

• Female and from the UK, Europe, or OK with UK 9-5 timezones.

• Not a scammer, faker, or time waster.

• Switch or not afraid to have an even say in that sort of stuff. Leaning towards the side of encouragement.

• Open minded and not judgemental. Open to new kinks and able to have long detailed conversations about them. I might surprise you with mine and can’t wait to be surprised by yours.

• Right now you like the idea of lingerie shopping together to help me choose a new set to play in during my next night away. Im just missing the bottoms but have my eye on a few things.

• Aren’t looking for a relationship or to ‘relocate across the world’ for a Reddit post. You are wanting to build up a long term, supportive, open, and flirty conversation. Let’s just be flirty, supportive friends.

• Be real. Have your own things that keep you away from replying all the time and understand I have those things too. Just be honest about who you are. Don’t be the BF trying to be the GF on here. I’m complicated and different, I’m trans but that’s a can of worms, so I get it, but I’m trying to be open from the start and I always welcome questions or conversations. It’s just a bit confusing I guess but there we go.

• Be into Elizabeth Olsen, Rebecca Ferguson, Hayley Atwell, Zoe Saldana, or similar. Who from this list am I missing?

• Actually read this. I’m loyal, love long conversations, and enjoy getting to know people. So this isn’t just a flash in the pan! What do you order at a bar, tell me when you message me and we can go from there.

• Don’t be overly controlling or demanding. The subtleties of the dynamic is in the drive and desire you build through understanding each other and leaning into that. Not just barking orders and moving on a few days later.

Anyway, that’s enough for now. Tell me about you, I cant wait to hear from you. Take a chance, I won’t let you down :-)

Thanks for stopping by and if I’m not for you that’s OK, I hope you find what you’re looking for.

Do something kind for someone today that will make them smile.

Jess xx