That slow build. That deep fulfilment.

When was the last time you felt you could truly be yourself?

Without the layers, without being the person people expect you to be?

You have those deep seeded thoughts, maybe they have never been realised.

The ones where darkest you emerges. The side that has never been nurtured.

Maybe those needs have been shoved aside, because of dismissed notions or shameful rebuffs. Now they are pushed aside, and you get on with the day.

Perhaps you don’t have a dark side… and I mean, what constitutes that notion anyway?

Maybe you have just been something for everyone else, and not had the chance to be the things that only certain people might get. You don’t know what you don’t know, right?

Where am I going with all this?

Well, that’s part of what makes a kink dynamic such a tantalising draw.

The chance to be what you could be.

Maybe this is your first rodeo, maybe you’re back to the well, slaking that thirst.

The deep wish to be wanted, to allow your brain to share all it needs - and have it all adored, accepted.

Those little moments, where you reach for your phone. You want to. You need to.

You glance at the notifications. It’ll be your Daddy Dom.

That ache grows in your belly.

Those hurried moments where you reply, “more, now.”

Finally, alone time. Your body relaxes. You open your app, and take in the messages. What should you reply? How should you reply? How far would you take things?

I mean, a successful online Dynamic is a rare, special beast.

I’m someone that can be what you need, how you have dreamt things could be.

That little pep to your step. The ache that grows into other feelings, needs. Wants.

Feeling like you want to reach out? Do it. Say hi.

Be sweet, be charming, be yourself. Please.

I have lots of interests and hobbies that can set a fun foundation of mutual connection.

I can be that what you need. The one that makes your feet wiggle when you’re in bed.

I am married, and in a unique position where I can explore. If you are still reading and married, or ok with this please reach out.