About me:

Hey all, I'm Sam! I'm M 28 and from the US. I'm currently looking for a little or sub and as long as this post is up I'm still looking. So feel free to send me a message if you like what you read!

As the title says; I'm 28 and from the US. I've been a Daddy, Dom, Caregiver, Owner, and a Master for over 8 years now. I'll say more about my kinks and bdsm lifestyle/experience more below.

As for the basic info about me, here goes:

I'm currently back in college finishing my degree in Computer Science and have about a year left before I graduate. I've always had a passion for technology and how things work and this has definitely been the right career choice for me. Why in college at 28? Well, after high-school I did a lot of blue collar work and did odd jobs, tried different things, mostly I didn't really know what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. But after a while I figured out what I wanted. And during that process of working and dating I found out a lot about myself.

I'm definitely laid back, I enjoy going with the flow and relaxing and spending quality time with the people I'm close to. I have a bunch of siblings and nieces and nephews and absolutely enjoy being the fun uncle! Family is super important to me and it's for sure apart of who I am.

I'm just as comfortable enjoying a lazy weekend reading books, watching movies, and spending the days at home as well as going out on adventures. I love the outdoors as well! With being in Alabama, there's a bunch of lovely hiking trails and rivers/creeks to kayak in, the nature and scenery here is beautiful. We just have to pay for it all with the hot and humid summers, if you know you know haha.

To tell you more about my looks: I'm 6'2, brown hair, blue eyes. I have broad shoulders and a big chest, and while I'm not in perfect shape, I'm not unhealthy, for sure have the classic dad bod going on. I go to the gym regularly and would love to find someone who can with me. Feel free to ask for pics if you decide to message me!

A list of my hobbies:

Reading good books (mostly sci-fi and fantasy, think Tolkien and Frank Herbet/Isaac Asimov). I play video games as well (LoL, TFT, Minecraft, Palworld, RDR2, Skyrim, Starfield, Hogwarts Legacy). Nature has been a big part of my interests, from hiking, camping, to whitewater kayaking, even just reading a good book in a hammock. As mentioned before, I love spending time with my family, quality time is definitely high on my love language. And just some others include board games, music, movies, puzzles (the rubiks cube kind).

What I'm looking for:

Mostly what I'm looking for firstly is friendship, I want to fine someone I can be best friends with as well as be romantic with and be in a dynamic. I don't need a mirror copy of myself, I don't think I necessarily have a type. But I'd prefer someone who is fun and easygoing, honestly and communication is super important, if we can't trust each other then what's the point? I want a partner who is all in, who will stop at nothing to build a future together. I find people's lack of commitment disturbing (Star Wars nod). I understand making friends and having fun, but I'm not in the mindset of dating just to date. If you don't align with that we probably aren't a good match. To be clear, I'm not saying that if we start talking and start a dynamic it a permanent commitment no matter what happens. Obviously some things don't work out, but why not give it your all and try?

As far as looks go I'd like someone who is fit and healthy, nobody's perfect, I'm definitely not, but I'd like someone who can enjoy outdoor activities with me and is overall healthy. To clarify further, I don't really have a specific type, and I'm not expecting just skin and bones haha, curvy women are welcome.

For the bdsm/kink side:

I have most experience as a Daddy, Caregiver, and Dom, with over 8 years of experience. The most important thing to me is that you feel safe, comfortable, and happy under my care. I'm very passionate and caring, I can be very sweet and patient. But at the same time I can be very stern and strict. Basically the more obedient you are the nicer I am and the more bratty you are the more strict I am. I'm fine with brats but I do expect obedience, so be mindful of that. I do have my own needs and expect you to respect them as much as I respect yours. As far as sexual/physical things go, I am nsfw, but never in little space. So we can take as long as you need until you feel comfortable with me. Just understand I have my own desires I need to have met too. So we can go as slowly as you need and take baby steps too if necessary. I view honesty and communication key to any relationship. I also have created a handbook for my littles over the years and adjusted and added to it, so after we get to know each other better I'll personalize it to you for the both of us to have and be able to reference and for you to follow.

Lastly, I'm an open book. So if you have questions please ask!

Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or if you're interested! I'm definitely okay with making friends first and seeing if we are a good match. I don't want to start a dynamic with someone unless we both feel a connection. Anyways, sorry for the long post, I hope you enjoyed reading it!