I need a sub I can invest my time, energy, and resources to better both of us - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and the satisfaction of seeing you become more than you currently are. I embrace the rules based structure and discipline of BDSM and expect the same in my sub. The lifestyle has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. My ability to connect with a sub and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience. BDSM has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. My ability to connect with a sub and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm, self-employed and have flexibility in travel and schedule as I can work remotely. Vanilla interests include physical fitness, backcountry hiking, gaming, and all things history/culture/diversity and writing. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg, restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years.

You: My main requirement is serious intent. I don't have strict physical requirements only that you are reasonably attractive and take care of yourself. Preference to the self-aware, mental healthy savvy, and those that embrace BDSM as more than a kink. Currently I spend my time between Las Vegas, Huntsville, Florida, and the Gulf Coast so prefer you be within driving distance or travel ready. Not interested in poly or complicated domestic situations.

If interested, I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility, the first step is you DMing me your interest in my approach.