Hey there :)

I'm a 30 year old guy in the LA/OC area. At this point, I'd prefer someone close enough that we could see each other on a regular basis. With the right person distance becomes less important. I have had some nice chat with people here before, so even if we're not a perfect match it still might be fun to talk. I'm not 100% against online play but people irl go to the front of the line

I consider myself a switch but I've never been with a dominant woman in person before, so that's something I want to try. Seeing as how it would be something new to me, I'm looking for someone gentle and caring who's willing to take it slow and explore. You don't need any experience as a domme either, in fact it might be more fun with both of us learning/exploring at the same time!

Because of that, I don't want to list a big list of kinks/limits here, because I don't even know what they are yet haha. I have some ideas of where my limits might be that we can talk about, but I'm willing to try things and see where we end up :)

I will say though, that in general I think I'm interested in more of a gentle domme, someone who's caring and treats me as an equal. We should be partners who respect each other and are exploring new territory together and always have each other's best interests at heart. That's not to say we can't engage in some scenarios where those roles diverge a bit more.

Outside of kink, I'm an engineer at a startup for work, outside of work I like to read (sci-fi/fantasy), play video games, cook, watch science-y youtube, etc. I'm sapio and demisexual, which I think those words scare a lot of people and a lot of people assume that means I'm asexual. Although some people who are sapiosexual can be asexual, that's not the case for me. I definitely have a normal sex drive but also hearing a woman talk about something intelligent does get me going a little...

I tried to keep this post moderately short int he hopes that people would actually read it. I generally tend to write a lot so feel free to ask me more questions and I'm happy to share more about myself, and I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

I suppose I should mention this here: I'm not interested in ENM or any form of cheating.