Hi I’m a artsy, nerdy, trans man dom looking for a sub of any gender or lack there of. It truly does not matter! I have been a dom for the past 4 years in person and online respectively. Some guidelines for what I’m looking for are as follows:

Please be respectful. This includes not using feminine language or honourifics to describe me. This also includes not using honourifics until we are more established.

I would prefer not to share photos until we are both comfortable with sharing photos. So not right away. However if we get along and everything works out it will definitely be something I’d like to do in the future.

I want something longer term so taking our time and going slow is crucial to this. I do not want to rush into something dynamic wise or otherwise. I want to properly vet you before getting into a dynamic and that takes time. A dynamic is a serious commitment to me and it should be treated as such. Everything can and will be negotiated.

I am poly and ethically non monogamous and I would prefer that you are too.

In terms of roles I am mainly a CG, owner, master, brat tamer, primal hunter, sadist, rigger and all around experimentalist.

Kinks and limits can be discussed in DMs. Though I have a pretty extensive list of kinks.

The type of dynamic I’m most interested in is one with strict rules, task giving, punishments and funishments accordingly, a reward system for various things like a good noodle board, long term oriented and fits our dynamic roles well. I also want to emphasize that everything is negotiable.

In person meeting up is not necessary.

Outside of kink I would like us to mesh well and get along. Sharing interests, sharing values, etc is very important in a dynamic to me. Like I said I am quite artsy and nerdy so I’m sure we can find common ground.

Feel free to DM with an intro if any of this interests you! Thanks for reading!