Maybe we never meet...and maybe that's the point. But what if we tease each other with near misses, or "catch me if you can" type scenarios that, to deny ourselves that possibility would be, in a word, maddening?

Online dynamics can be just as rewarding as their IRL counterpart if both parties truly invest in their role. I love giving out tasks and assignments just as much as you like doing them. But often they start out with a bang and then fizzle out just as quickly as they start. Be it because of discovered incompatibility, family commitments that pop up, job responsibilities, or just the reality of distance, they virtually all come to an end because the initial intensity is hard to sustain.

But what if we turned distance (or the lack thereof in our case) into our biggest advantage to keep things going? Sure, we get into our fun routine of delving into our kinks (more on mine below), but what if we were to set aside a couple hours on a Saturday where we both know we'd be at the same place at the same time? Be it the sculpture garden, the path around Lake Harriet, Como Park, hell, even a specific Target, or anyplace in-between. Just the fun and anxiety of wondering if you're my secret sub girl with no panties on per my instructions, or with your tits tied under your outfit that only a very discerning eye could possibly notice, would give things a whole new twist.

Now anonymity probably means we don't share pics other than just teasing little glances. But that isn't to say we still can't incorporate pictures of our surroundings. And it certainly doesn't mean I can't discreetly leave a set of nipple clamps as a present for you to discover behind, oh I don't know, a specific book at a particular library or bookstore for you to find. After all, if you want to cum after I've been having you edge for the last several days, then you better get your present and show me you have it in hand.

This can truly be fun and engaging with the right partner, but we still need to align on some of our core bdsm interests, but above all else, you need to be a little adventurous. As for me, I'm definitely a bondage and discipline enthusiast that enjoys some humiliation and degradation, but nothing too overt, as I would say I definitely trend towards being the more nurturing, daddy dom type. Oh, and I'm a very big fan of orgasm control, denial, and erotic hypnosis -- FYI, I'm a pretty damn good hypnotist, but that’s probably a conversation for a different day.

So, are you on board? Can you see yourself submitting to me in a so-close-but-so-far type dynamic where we could potentially give in at some point to the "so close" part of the equation? I hope you can, because I feel it has a lot of promise. At the very least, our proximity will already give us quite a bit in common and that's never a bad thing when forging a dom/sub connection. If you think you're up for exploring it, send me a PM and tell me a little about yourself. Oh, and feel free to include one of your favorite hang-outs in your message and we can start our journey. Enjoy your weekend!

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