I'm an experienced natural Dominant/Daddy Dom who is trying to find a sub or little that would be interested in an on-going longer term relationship. I prefer someone local to the San Diego area, but I will consider OC/LA/IE areas if we are able to get together from time to time. At this time, I'm not looking for an online only relationship.

So that I'm upfront with you, I'll state that I'm married and not changing that aspect. And my relationship is not an open-marriage or ENM situation, so you would need to be accepting and comfortable with that aspect, and be discreet. I know there are married or attached subs/littles out there who are also having a hard time finding a partner they can play freely with, so hopefully this finds YOU. I would prefer someone who is also attached or married. I think we'll both have a better understanding of what we can bring to this dynamic, and how we will interact together if we're facing similar struggles, priorities, and needs. I'm open to single women, of course, but please just be okay with my situation and willing to work with me on it.

If you're even remotely curious and want to know more, please chat or DM me and we can talk further. I may be up in years, but I've been around the block enough to know what I'm doing, and I'm very open minded about just about anything. If you have an idea or kink, I'm sure I will love it. :) I'll openly and honestly answer any questions or concerns that you have for me, no holds barred, so it doesn't hurt to shoot a note and we can see if we're a match.

From a BDSM perspective, I am experienced, and can play in either D/s or DDlg spectrums, and I have done so for quite a while. I never treat any sub the same as any other past sub. Your needs and desires are going to be very unique to you, so I see my job as fulfilling what you're looking for. That said, among other things, I am into bondage and restraints, age play, TPE, porn, degradation, humiliation, cnc/pseudo-cnc, oral fetishes, cum play, teasing, aftercare, cuddling, physical intimacy, dirty talk, exhibitionism/sharing, sexy clothes, nipple/breast play, anal, and more. I'm a soft Dom with a strict flair, so I guess I lean more on the controlling and demanding side, but with a firm love of aftercare and praise for my sub or little. I'm open to any race, age, size, shape, and hair color. :)

Please reach out if interested! Let's chat, even if it goes nowhere, at least we took a shot.