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Dominant for submissive
My experience so far
I've been a Dominant for 20 years, being a part of this lifestyle has really blessed me with opportunities to meet the most amazing, and wonderful women. I've shared some fantastic experiences, some of the most significant and beautiful relationships. It is why I continue to come back, why I continue to try, because it can be so wonderful.
Whom I am looking for
One of the things that drive me about this, is that this is about exploration, this is about discovery. I want someone who is willing to open to me and willing to fully explore herself, to search the dark crevices of her sexuality.
I'm not saying we are going to jump into anything too serious, or too heavy right away. Not at all, what ever your level of comfort with the lifestyle we will go accordingly. I'm not looking to rush you, or to pressure you, I want this to be a positive and fun experience for both of us.
Kinks I want to explore with you
Orgasm control, paddling, private public play, toys, nipple and breast play, anal, orgasm denial, wardrobe control, begging, degradation, wax play, body writing, pictures, videos, and more...
My limits
No blood, no scat, no scars, no excessive amount of pain, no permanent marks.
Why you should consider opening to me
I am strong, I am confident, and I am experienced, but that isn't all, I have a great understanding of how this dynamic works. As a submissive you are precious to me, caring for you, nurturing you, and helping grow as a person and as a sub is important to me. I will always listen to you, I will invest myself in you, emotionally, and intellectually. This is a relationship, and there has to be balance and I focus on that it isn't all weird sex acts, and being controlled, no we are going to grow close, we are going to laugh together, we are going to learn about each other. I want to hear about your day, I want to know about your passions, I want to truly know you.
Physical appearance
I'm not so hung up on particulars, so long as there is a physical attraction there for both of us I am happy. About myself I'm 6'1 dark features, black hair, dark eyes, dad bod, I also have facial hair and am more than willing to share a picture or two if we end up sharing this experience and once we are both comfortable.
In Closing
I want to thank you for your time and consideration, you have the power to choose whom you speak to, whom you allow to get to know you, and I am genuinely flattered that your considering giving yourself to me. It isn't something I take lightly, nor will I take you for granted.
All that said I'm asking you to take a chance, to be open to what saying yes to me could mean to both of us. I hope to hear from you, and I hope you come to me with an open heart.
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