Hi there! Bare with me, this may take awhile. My apologies in advance.

You can call me Cecilia : )

I am here looking for something specific. Is this the best place to look? Probably not, but you’ve gotta be in it to win it—and why overlook Reddit just because some of the people suck? It’s 2024; a lot of people suck, lol.

I’m a delight to be around about 70% of the time. I have genuine passions and interests outside of the bedroom. I work about 50 hours a week, but I always have time for people and things I care about.

And right now I’m primarily looking for a long term or ongoing partner of some sort.

This arrangement not necessarily need be romantic, though that would be welcomed, but it does need to be consistent.

I will not send pictures until I’m comfortable. I will not meet you anywhere that isn’t public, with traffic, for first meet. I will not engage in play on first meet.

Physically speaking, I’m black, 5’ 5” 230 and I’ve got it all: boobs, butt, thick thighs, back rolls, and a squishy belly. Short brown hair growing out of a pixie that I’m not sure what to do with at this point. Brown eyes. Huge hands and feet. If that sounds good to you, great! If not, that’s okay too—I’m not rated E for Everybody.

I’m most attracted to DDF (420 friendly), currently and recently tested clean STI screen with access to proof, HWP (fit, burly, dadbod, and lean are all good), single (I am absolutely not interested in cheaters or anyone in an ENM relationship) white males aged 23-40 who have the ability to host at least some of the time.

Also! I’m interested in topping for women <3 that’s a skill I’ve been wanting to work on. You should follow the same criteria I have listed above.

As a domme (80%) I’m very versatile, which I guess would make me a Service Domme? There are a bunch of things I can get into if you’re into them. I have limits, of course, but most times I don’t rule out anything before hearing a partner out. Hard limits are permanent, ageplay, and raceplay. Favorite activities are forced or ruined orgasms, oral, and free use (bet you’ve never heard a lady say that before!).

As a sub (20%) I 1000% am a Brat, but I’m just going to leave that right there because for some reason men (“dom’s”) on Reddit don’t like us…

I think it’s because we’re too smart for them.

Anyway, I could add so much more, but this was already a wall of text, and if I included everything here, there’d be nothing for us to talk about ; )

Feel free to send me a message! And while you’re at it, tell me something that I’m not, so I know you made it this far.