Hello there! I'm Alastair, and I'm a 32 year old trans man looking for a sub to play and learn with. I'm androsexual, so I'm a bit more loose with who I'm attracted to and like in terms of body types and gender (though I tend to prefer men, trans or cis). I am relatively new to kink as I have been in a vanilla relationship for 9 years, and before that I just sort of experimented a little. However my husband and I have now opened up our relationship, and I'm looking to explore this side of myself more. I would love to get together with someone else who is perhaps new to this like me, or experienced who doesn't mind helping me learn. I'm a switch so I wouldn't mind getting together with another switch and trying out different dynamics. However, I'm not interested in someone who is just a dom. At least not right now.

So, what am I into? Well there is a lot of things I've never tried, and I'm open to trying a lot of things! However there are some things I know for a fact that I really enjoy. I like Bondage, Chastity (as a keyholder), impact play, praise and light degradation, punishment and rewarding behavior, exhibitionism and voyeurism, group play, and erotic photography. If I were to describe the type of dom I wish to be, I really want to be a daddy dom. I want to encourage my sub to be a happy, healthy human being. To help them when they need it, and to provide a stable presence they can rely on. I want to set goals, and use our dynamic not only for fun and pleasure, but to take care of their mental, physical, and emotional health. Just like any good daddy would.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm a geeky guy who likes to fly fish, play TTRPGs and board games, and read books. If you're interested in potentially getting to know each other, feel free to reach out. I'm on reddit a lot so I usually respond to DMs pretty quickly. Thank you!